Le soir où Élise fit changer les serrures, il pleuvait depuis des heures.

Le serrurier lui tendit cinq clés neuves dans un sachet transparent. Elle les compta deux fois, puis regarda la porte comme si elle attendait déjà de la voir s’ouvrir.

Sur la console reposait une enveloppe envoyée par Paul. À l’intérieur, il y avait son ancienne clé et une phrase écrite à la main.

« Je te la rends comme convenu. »

Élise prit la clé entre deux doigts.

Il avait pu en faire une copie.

Le lendemain, elle installa une caméra face à l’entrée. Chaque nuit, elle regardait les enregistrements. Le palier restait vide. Personne ne touchait à la serrure.

Cette absence aurait dû la rassurer. Elle produisit l’effet inverse.

Un homme qui voulait être vu aurait déjà agi. Paul, lui, attendait. Son silence prouvait sa patience. Les semaines sans incident devenaient la mesure du danger qu’il préparait.

Plus il disparaissait, plus il devenait puissant.

Après dix-huit années de mariage, Élise ne pouvait pas accepter d’être simplement celle qui était partie. Une femme qui quitte doit répondre à des questions. Une femme qui s’échappe n’a rien à expliquer.

Alors elle avait remis leur histoire dans un autre ordre.

Les longues journées de Paul au cabinet étaient devenues des absences calculées. Ses questions étaient des contrôles. Ses colères révélaient son vrai visage. Son calme montrait à quel point il savait le cacher.

Quand il insistait, elle se sentait harcelée.

Quand il renonçait, elle se sentait punie.

Quand il écrivait, elle cherchait la menace entre les lignes.

Quand il ne répondait plus, elle la trouvait dans le silence.

Dans la maison, pourtant, tout continuait de grandir.

L’aîné devait maintenant se baisser pour l’embrasser. Le deuxième avait pris une voix d’homme. Le plus jeune perdait ses dents de lait et glissait sous son oreiller de petits morceaux d’enfance.

Seule la peur d’Élise ne changeait pas.

Un jeudi, sa thérapeute posa son carnet sur ses genoux.

« Que devrait faire Paul pour vous montrer qu’il ne cherche pas à vous nuire ? »

« Me laisser tranquille. »

« C’est ce qu’il fait. »

« Parce qu’il prépare quelque chose. »

« Et s’il vous écrivait qu’il ne veut aucun conflit ? »

« Ce serait une manipulation. »

« S’il vous proposait son aide ? »

« Il chercherait à revenir dans ma vie. »

« S’il ne proposait rien ? »

Élise serra les mâchoires.

« Il voudrait me voir tomber. »

La thérapeute attendit.

« Existe-t-il une seule chose qu’il puisse faire qui vous amènerait à penser que vous vous trompez ? »

Élise regarda la fenêtre.

« Non. »

Le mot resta dans la pièce après son départ.

Quelques jours plus tard, en cherchant l’acte de naissance du plus jeune, Élise retrouva quatre carnets.

Dans le premier, dix-sept ans plus tôt, elle avait écrit :

« Un jour, il me fera payer tout ce que je lui ai dit. »

Dans le deuxième :

« Il attend le bon moment. »

Dans le troisième :

« Quand les enfants seront plus grands, il montrera enfin qui il est. »

Dans le dernier :

« Maintenant que nous sommes séparés, il va agir. »

Élise posa les carnets par ordre de date. Autour d’eux, les photographies racontaient le passage du temps. Un nourrisson était devenu adolescent. Un petit garçon avait perdu ses joues rondes. Son propre visage avait changé. Celui de Paul aussi.

Mais le danger vivait toujours demain.

Les garçons avaient pris dix-huit ans. La menace, elle, était restée au futur.

Le soir même, Élise tendit son téléphone à l’aîné.

« Lis le message de ton père. Dis-moi ce qu’il veut vraiment. »

Le garçon parcourut les quelques lignes, puis retourna le téléphone contre la table.

« Je ne sais pas lequel de vous a raison. Et je ne veux plus le décider. Je veux seulement être votre fils. »

Il monta dans sa chambre.

Élise resta seule devant les quatre carnets.

Paul n’avait pas été un mari parfait. Il avait crié, blessé et fui certaines conversations dans le travail. Mais les pages racontaient rarement ce qu’il avait fait. Elles racontaient surtout ce qu’il allait faire.

Elle comprit alors ce qui la terrifiait depuis son départ.

Pendant dix-huit ans, Paul avait vu ses faiblesses, ses mensonges, ses bontés et ses cruautés. Tant qu’il l’aimait, elle pouvait encore infléchir son regard. Maintenant qu’il vivait loin d’elle, il emportait sa propre mémoire de leur histoire.

Il était devenu un témoin qu’elle ne pouvait plus corriger.

S’il était dangereux, son témoignage ne valait rien. S’il était fou, ses souvenirs devenaient suspects. Le transformer en monstre était encore une façon de régner sur ce qu’il avait vu.

Cette pensée lui donna la nausée.

À la séance suivante, elle raconta les carnets, puis la phrase de son fils.

« S’il n’est pas le monstre, alors c’est moi », murmura-t-elle.

La thérapeute secoua lentement la tête.

« Il existe peut-être une troisième place. Vous pouvez avoir souffert et avoir fait souffrir. Reconnaître un tort ne vous condamne pas à devenir tout entière ce tort. »

Élise ne répondit pas. Pour la première fois, personne ne lui demandait de choisir entre l’innocence et l’anéantissement.

Le dimanche, elle dit à ses fils :

« Je vous ai demandé de porter une peur qui m’appartenait. Vous avez le droit d’aimer votre père sans surveiller mon visage. »

Puis elle écrivit à Paul :

« J’ai parlé de tes intentions comme si je les connaissais. Je ne les connaissais pas. Je vais corriger ce que j’ai affirmé. »

Il ne répondit pas.

L’ancienne histoire se leva aussitôt. Son silence était un piège. Il gardait le message pour s’en servir. Il savourait sa victoire.

Élise ouvrit l’un des carnets et écrivit :

« Il ne répond pas parce que… »

Elle regarda les mots, puis raya les deux derniers.

Il ne répond pas.

Je ne sais pas pourquoi.

Dans la nuit, elle crut de nouveau entendre une clé contre la porte. Elle se redressa, le cœur battant, puis regarda la caméra posée sur la table de chevet.

Elle ne l’ouvrit pas.

La serrure était fermée. Le reste, elle ne le savait pas.

Pour la première fois, cette ignorance ne ressemblait pas à un danger.

Elle ressemblait à une sortie.

Muse – The Second Law (2012)

I had to truck down to Dallas last week for some vehicle maintenance and we ended up spending a couple of days visiting old friends. It was a lot of fun popping in on people we haven't seen in 10 years.

Especially having grown a beard and let my hair go for months. I'm not quite a hippy, but I'm am NOT the picture of grooming I once was.

Surprise!

And smiles and laughter.

While driving around, I discovered a fantastic local radio station that just played banger after banger.

KNTU 88.1 Indie out of Denton, the University of North Texas station.

This is a big deal. Where I live in Dust Meridian, the only radio station we have is the sound of dust blowing in a tin can that gets pipped in via string.

881indie.com/

Need You Tonight INXS Kick

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Champagne Supernova Oasis (What's The Story) Morning Glory?

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Clocks Coldplay A Rush Of Blood To The Head

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Lithium Nirvana Nevermind

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Sitting, Waiting, Wishing Jack Johnson In Between Dreams

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Freaking Out Michigander Over Before You Know It

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If You Leave OMD Pretty In Pink Soundtrack

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Bad Dreams Teddy Swims I've Tried Everything But Therapy (Part 2)

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We're Going to Be Friends White Stripes White Blood Cells

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Bittersweet Symphony cover Bittersweet Symphony The Verve Urban Hymns

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Linger Cranberries Everybody Else Is Doing It, So Why Can't We?

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Ring of Fire Social Distortion Social Distortion

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The Cave Mumford and Sons

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How soon is Now? The Smiths Hatful of Sorrow

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Elephant Tame impala Lonerism

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Person I should have Been James Morrison The Awakening

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Independent Love Song Scarlet naked

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Ride a White Horse Goldfrapp Supernature

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I'll Be You The Replacements Don't Tell a Soul

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Saving My Heart Yes Union

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One Day Like This Elbow The Seldom Seen Kid

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There Will Be Chances The Charlatans Different Days

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You Do Something Peter Weller Stanley Road

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But the one that hooked me from the get was [Madness by Muse.]https://open.spotify.com/track/0c4IEciLCDdXEhhKxj4ThA?si=2ed47b9de1eb4926)

I heard that song ever day for weeks and weeks when it released more than a decade ago. Today, it means something much different than the entrancing ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad chant.

A lot more.

All of The 2nd Law is great loud. Supremacy starts strong and then Madness and Panic Station hook you.

Its an album of contrasts. What happens when the systems we've built become too complicated to control?

The 2nd Law -2012 by Muse

“Madness”

Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad

I, I can't get these memories out of my mind And some kind of madness has started to evolve Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad And I, I tried so hard to let you go But some kind of madness is swallowing me whole, yeah Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad

I have finally seen the light And I have finally realized What you mean

Ooh oh oh

And now I need to know is this real love Or is it just madness keeping us afloat? Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad And when I look back at all the crazy fights we had Like some kind of madness was taking control, yeah Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad

And now I have finally seen the light And I have finally realized What you need

Mmmm

Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad

But now I have finally seen the end (finally seen the end) And I'm not expecting you to care, no (expecting you to care) But I have finally seen the light (finally seen the light) And I have finally realized (realized) I need your love I need your love

Come to me Just in a dream Come on and rescue me Yes I know, I can't be wrong And baby, you're too headstrong Our love is Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma mad mad mad Madness

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“Crazy how those old wounds will rip open again on a random Wednesday”

…but at least i know what they are

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9. Punitions et pansements

Fin de l’été 1955. La traversée a été épouvantable, tout le monde était épuisé. On débarqua, soulagés, à Marseille. Il manquait des bagages, s’ensuivirent de longues palabres, on les retrouva, fouillés sans précaution, mais il ne manquait rien, il n’y avait rien de précieux. Bienvenue en France. Je fis connaissance avec mon pays. Le désordre du port m’intéressait, mais vite on dut se rendre à l’hôtel. On nous attendait. Je dus dormir avec ma grand-mère. Ma grand-mère m’était inconnue. À la maison, elle dirigeait son monde avec une autorité sans appel. D’emblée, son despotisme s’abattit sur moi. Je dus réciter au coucher des prières que je ne comprenais pas, j’avais peur. Je voulais aller dans la chambre avec ma sœur et mes parents. Puni. La nuit, ronflements. Je ne dormis pas. Le lendemain matin nouvelles prières. Je tombais de fatigue. On me donna du Banania, oubliant mon intolérance au lactose. Je vomis.

La France d’emblée devint le pays des punitions. Je réclamais ma nounou, je voulais retourner dans le delta, on me dit capricieux et insupportable. Ma sœur, 12 ans, parlait un excellent français acquis chez les sœurs, moi, j’étais un petit sauvage, un niakoué. On prit le train pour Nantes le surlendemain, pour un long, long voyage, je pus enfin dormir bercé par le tacatac régulier, hypnotique des roues, je pus aussi libérer mes pieds. On y colla des pansements Urgo. Les pansements Urgo deviendront mes compagnons. Je collectionnerai longtemps les petits emballages parmi mes trésors. Mes pieds ne se feront jamais aux chaussures « de ville » que ma mère s’acharnera à me faire porter jusqu’à ce que je finisse par imposer des tennis (Springcourt) ou rien. De ce jour, je commençai à pouvoir marcher et courir sans boiter. Je devins d’ailleurs un excellent coureur de fond. Ma révolte, vers 12 ans, fut d’ailleurs générale.

#nguolai

I am sleepy. I have clearly forgotten the energy levels of a high-speed bundle of fearlessness. We have sequestered ourselves inside my bedroom and master bath. They are the most peaceful and kitten safe areas of my apartment. They are also a jungle gym of goth curiosity.

You may be saying to yourself that it is not like Phoebe can literally climb the walls. Did I mention the black and periwinkle acoustic fiberboards covering two walls? No? Let's just say that they will support the weight of a kitten, and I managed to catch her before she flung herself at the over-the-door potion shelf. I did not catch her before she got into a head-butting contest with the small jewelry box I keep my dainties, rings, cuffs, and industrials in. I'll sort the mess later. I'm just happy she didn't eat any of them.

We've gotten into a routine: eat, poop, go rabid, sleep. She did quickly escape into my studio when I was washing up her dish. I cut my temple on my bench-pin when trying to catch her before she got behind some drawers. So much for situational awareness. 🙄 She meeped when I ouched.

She is now letting me know when she wants more food as opposed to me scheduling it. She runs to the bedroom door and mouths a silent meow. If I don't respond, she'll run back to wherever I am and climb until we're face to face so that she can scream a single meow for my oblivious self to get with the program. She's still very good about waiting for me to get everything prepared, but tonight she did have thoughts she wanted to share about how slow I was moving. She still won't drink water beyond what I add to her food. Not atypical for her age.

She is fast, gentle, curious, and open to trust. Her claws are razor sharp, but she only uses them when lost in a hunting frenzy. She hasn't completely learned to groom herself yet, but she is doing her face. I started teaching her today with a microfiber makeup remover cloth. She fell asleep, purring.😹 I'll lightly dampen it tomorrow.

My sleeping is totally jacked. I don't really sleep much in the Winter, but Summer and early Autumn kick my ass. She wakes me as soon as I start to fade. Sometimes I manage to get her to curl up with the hypnotic double head-stroke. Other times it's a no go.

She is puuurrfect.

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“Wholeness isn’t about perfection, it’s about coming home to yourself.”

For so long, I believed healing meant fixing what was broken. piecing myself back together until I resembled the woman I was before the storm. But I don’t want to be her again. She didn’t know how strong she could be. She didn’t know what it meant to lose everything and still rise.

I’m learning now that wholeness isn’t perfection. It’s accepting every scar, every crack, every moment that tested me. And realizing those are the very things that make me real.

I used to look in the mirror and see everything that went wrong. Now, I see a woman who didn’t give up. A woman who learned to stand alone. A woman who cried, broke, and kept going anyway.

Becoming whole isn’t about finding every missing piece. It’s remembering that I was never missing anything at all. I just had to uncover the parts of me buried under fear, under shame, under the noise. That quiet rediscovery has been the most sacred part of this journey.

Some days I still wobble. Some days the old pain still knocks at the door. But I don’t live there anymore.

I’m building something steadier now. A peace that doesn’t depend on anyone else’s choices, a forgiveness that doesn’t ask for permission, and a love that finally begins with me.

Healing doesn’t mean the hurting stops. It means the hurt no longer decides how I love, or dream, or breathe. It means I can look at what broke me and say, “You didn’t win.”

My future is still uncertain. There are still check‑ins with probation, still waiting, still questions without answers. But I’m not defined by any of it anymore.

Whatever comes next, I’ll meet it as I am, stronger, calmer, and finally at home within myself.

Because even if the world doesn’t understand my story, I do. I know what I’ve walked through, what I’ve endured, and the part I played in all of it. I know my truth.

My hope is that those who must decide can see the whole picture. Not just the reports or the paperwork, but the heart behind it. There are always two sides to every story, and the truth usually lives somewhere in between.

I don’t know how much faith I have left in the system, but I still believe in fairness. I believe in honesty. And I believe that what’s right will find its way through, even if it takes time.

Whatever comes next, I’ll face it with open eyes and steady hands. Not because I’m unafraid, but because I finally trust myself enough to stand in my truth.

No matter the outcome, this is not the end of my journey. I will continue to stand. I will continue to heal. I will continue to show up, to learn, and to become the best version of myself.

(NEXT – CHAPTER 8)

“I don’t forgive because it’s easy. I forgive because I deserve peace.”

Forgiveness has never come easy to me. It feels too big, To unfair, Like saying “It’s okay,” when it never really was. For the longest time, I thought forgiving meant erasing the hurt, or pretending I wasn’t still angry, confused, or broken. But that’s not what forgiveness is. Not anymore.

Forgiveness, I’m learning isn’t about the other person. It’s about setting myself free from the story that keeps replaying in my head. It’s about loosening the grip of what happened so it stops choking the air out of my future. It’s about finally saying, “You don’t get to own this pain anymore, I do.”

For so time, I carried anger disguised as strength. It made me feel powerful, Like if I held on tight enough it would somehow protect me from being hurt again. But all it ever did was keep me tethered to the moment everything fell apart. And I’ve lived there long enough.

I don’t forgive to excuse. I forgive to exhale.

Some days, forgiveness looks like whispering, “I release you,” under my breath when the memories try to pull me back. Other days, it’s forgiving myself, For the times I begged for love that wasn’t returned, for not walking away sooner, For all the things I said when I was drowning in pain.

Self-forgiveness might be the hardest of all. It’s easy to blame myself for everything, For the fallout, for the mistakes, for the way it all unraveled. But I keep reminding myself, I did the best I could with what I knew then. And that has to be enough.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. It means remembering without letting it poison the present. It means acknowledging that something hurt deeply, And still choosing to move forward anyway.

There’s a strange kind of freedom that comes when you stop waiting for apologies that may never come. When you stop replaying what you can’t rewrite. When you realize that closure isn’t something you’re given, it’s something you decide to create.

I’m not saying it’s easy. There are days I still feel the sting. But I’m learning to let it pass through me instead of letting it live in me. Because I’ve lived long enough carrying pain that wasn’t mine to keep.

I forgive not because it’s deserved, But because I want peace more than I want answers. Because I want my heart to feel light again.

Forgiveness isn’t a destination. It’s a practice. One I have to choose again and again, Until the hurt stops echoing and the past finally rests.

But for now, I’m breathing easier, I’m sleeping better, And every time I choose grace over bitterness, I feel a little freer.

(NEXT – CHAPTER 7)

Purpose: Sun in The Star

There are two figures, women on this card. They are of a lighter blue than the background. One of them appears very relaxed, and is reclined with her hands clasped together behind her head. She has put down her vessel beside her. She is floating in a galactic liquid. She is daydreaming, and pursuing grand adventures in her mind. The other woman, appears to be the traditional visual representation of Aquarius, and is more focused on her task at hand. She is carrying a vessel similar to her companion’s, over her right shoulder and something is being poured out of it. More stars? Dreams? Whatever “it” is, their bodies are immersed in it, this shallow galactic river bed. The one lying down, her buttocks is fully immersed, but the rest of her limbs are raised slightly, like she is about to get into a “happy baby” or a “butterfly” yoga pose. As for the one with the vessel over her shoulder, the galaxy soup they are immersed in comes up to her knees. _Does the galactic river bed flow forever?

My self-expression and power source, does tend to honor both these women. One is coming from ease, a relaxed place, while the other is also fully committed to the task at hand, to her purpose—to pouring and sharing a dreamy, hopeful soup from a very abundant vessel._

Body: Moon in Temperance

The 14th card, is Temperance, in other words. Moderation. There is water flowing straight down from the Source, in the middle, from the top edges of the card. This blue liquid, falls into four stacked cups on a saucer, which is balancing on two fingers of a blue hand emerging from a lotus flower. The ‘water’ or liquid then overflows from two thin steams on either side of the stacked cups and into other cups. On the left, the water stream is flowing into a single cup on top of a saucer, balancing on another blue hand, also emerging from a lotus flower on a lily pad. To the right of the middle hand, the other stream flows into 8 stacked teacups with no saucer. Still, it is also balanced by a blue hand. There are also thinner water streams flowing out from each of the cups on either side of the stack of cups in the middle. In spite of the individual elements looking a bit abundant, indulgent, and somewhat chaotic—upon closer inspection, everything is balanced. All is well. There is poise and even, restraint.

My body needs to be in a state of equilibrium in order for it to function with poise. I notice a change, when I am jolted by something from the the outside. My body tends to react first. I need to learn to respond. To feel, but I still need to sit. To breathe. Being.

Motivation: The Emperor Rising

The figure has a golden ram head. Is he half-man, half-human? His ram head is very imposing. He’s not facing the viewer. We see only one side of his face. He is seated in a chair made out of diamonds, or perhaps some kind of crystal… is it jade? He is holding a scepter in his left hand and his right hand, is very casually placed on his lap. His left foot is firmly planted on the ground, while his right foot is able to balance a golden apple on the tip of his shoe. He looks calm and he knows what he is doing. He is striking a balance between power and poise, while still able to pull off a rather unorthodox, and unnecessary showy move, with the apple. He appears in control and unbothered.

Am I a master of the skills that I have acquired and what I have learned? Can I be confident in my actions? What can I do to be more secure and confident? What do I need? Can I ask for help?

When will she stop pouring from the vessel and just be?

Nature’s first green is gold, 
Her hardest hue to hold.
 Her early leaf’s a flower;
 But only so an hour.


Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief, 
So dawn goes down to day.
 Nothing gold can stay. -Robert Frost (also, Ponyboy)

I'd like to say I knew this before reading and watching The Outsiders, but i'd be a liar.

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#poetry #museum

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2024-09-18 13:01:12

Hot stuff, I'm tellin' ya.

3 years ago, my wife started writing a book/ how to count in spanish. She drew all of these ridiculous chili peppers. Half illustrated, but weridly charming in their weirdness.

I finally sucked it up and did a rendering pass and am now in the process of laying out the book.

This week has been me re-illustrating 25 original pieces.

Whew!

I guess the point is: patience.

Things that seem unlikely and impossible, with time, come to fruition.

Work hard. Be patient.

Good things come to those who wait.

“Even broken pieces can build something strong.”

Starting over... It doesn’t happen all at once, It’s not a clean slate or a good moment of clarity. It’s a slow, trembling rebuild, Brick by brick, Choice by choice.

After everything you once leaned on has fallen apart.

I’ve spent so long being in survival mode that I almost forgot what it felt like to live. For months, my only focus was just making it through the day, Get up, Breathe, Don’t fall apart in public.

That became my version of strength.

But lately, I’ve been wondering if maybe strength can be softer. Maybe rebuilding isn’t about proving I’m unbreakable. Maybe it’s about learning how to exist with the cracks, not as flaws, But as proof that I’ve lived through something that should’ve destroyed me, and it hasn’t.

I’m learning to take up space again, to let myself laugh without guilt, To enjoy a quiet cup of coffee without feeling like I should be worrying instead. Healing has a funny way of sneaking in during ordinary moments.

One day you catch yourself humming along to the radio or making plans for next week, and you realize, you’re starting to want life again.

That’s the thing about rebuilding; it doesn’t erase what happened. It just gives you new ways to hold it.

There are still days when the weight of everything hits me, The fear, The uncertainty, The shame.

But I’m starting to notice something else underneath all of that, determination. A kind of hope that whispers, You’re still here, and that means something.

I’ve been trying to forgive myself, for all the ways I abandoned myself while trying to hold everything else together. I was so focused on fixing things outside of me that I forgot to care for the woman inside.

So now I’m learning again, Slowly, Gently. I’m asking her what she needs. I’m letting her rest.

I’m learning that rebuilding isn’t rushing back to who I was, it’s giving myself permission to become someone new.

The thought of it seems scary, and it carries fear inside me. But it is also freedom.

I’m not trying to be who anyone else needs me to be. I’m rebuilding myself. Becoming a new version of me.

Maybe that’s the real gift of rock bottom, when there’s nothing left to hide behind, you finally meet yourself as a newer you.

I don’t have everything figured out, and I probably never will. But that is okay.

I’m building something real this time, not from fear, Not from desperation, But from truth, Courage.

And the quiet belief that I’m worth saving.

I think that’s enough, And maybe that’s everything.

Because even if the world still feels heavy, even if I’m still waiting for answers, I’m rebuilding piece by piece, Heart by heart, And somehow, I know, This time, it’s going to hold.

(NEXT – CHAPTER 6)

I Am Not One of You

Once, there was a boy who loved humanity.

Not the idea of it.

Not some distant dream of what mankind might become.

He loved the people themselves.

Their laughter.

Their hands.

Their fragile little lives burning against the vastness of an uncaring world.

He believed his species was beautiful.

He believed kindness was something sacred.

And he possessed it in abundance.

A gentle thing.

A tender thing.

A boy who would have given everything he owned to ease another's suffering.

And they laughed.

They called his kindness cute.

They smiled at his innocence as though innocence were something amusing to be outgrown.

Then they hurt him.

And when he begged—

they hurt him again.

Pain became his childhood.

Fear became his lullaby.

Suffering became the language spoken most fluently by the world around him.

He learned things no child should ever know.

He learned that a scream does not guarantee rescue.

That tears do not summon mercy.

That begging does not make cruel hands stop.

That sometimes the world hears a child crying

and simply

continues.

So he begged.

God, how he begged.

Not for greatness.

Not for riches.

Not for vengeance.

Only for someone to be kind.

Only for someone to look upon him and decide—

You have suffered enough.

No one came.

And slowly,

the thing inside him that had been pure began to change.

His kindness became caution.

His trust became fear.

His love became indifference.

His faith became silence.

And the boy who once believed humanity was worth everything began watching his people destroy one another.

He watched them wage wars over borders drawn in dirt.

He watched them slaughter for gods they claimed were loving.

He watched the strong devour the weak.

He watched the hungry be blamed for starving.

He watched the wounded be condemned for bleeding.

He watched children inherit the hatred of their fathers before they were old enough to understand why.

He watched men turn suffering into entertainment.

He watched cruelty become profitable.

He watched compassion become weakness.

He watched the powerful call their appetites principles.

And eventually he stopped asking—

How could they do this?

Because the answer became too obvious.

They could.

That was enough.

But one question remained.

One question that followed him through every sleepless night.

Through every memory.

Through every scar.

Through every grave.

He would look upon the forests and watch wolves hunt.

Yet after the hunt,

the pack remained a pack.

He watched animals protect their young.

Share warmth.

Mourn their dead.

Fight only because hunger demanded it.

And then he looked at mankind.

And wondered—

Why?

Why do we suffer greater than beasts?

Why does the creature that claims to possess reason invent a thousand reasons to be cruel?

Why does the creature that speaks of love practice hatred with such precision?

Why does the creature that builds temples also build prisons?

Why does the creature that writes poems write them beside graves it dug itself?

Why do we hurt those who cannot fight back?

Why do we abandon those who beg?

Why do we break what is gentle—

and then wonder why it became afraid?

He searched for the answer.

He searched in philosophy.

In religion.

In history.

In the faces of strangers.

In the faces of friends.

He searched inside himself.

And found nothing.

Only the terrible realization

that perhaps humanity was never the noble thing he believed it was.

Perhaps kindness was the exception.

Perhaps cruelty was the inheritance.

Perhaps civilization was only a thin white cloth draped over something ancient and hungry.

And perhaps the greatest lie he had ever been taught

was that being human was something to be proud of.

So the boy died.

Not in one moment.

That would have been mercy.

He died slowly.

Piece by piece.

Every cruelty buried another part of him.

Every abandonment covered another handful of earth.

Every unanswered plea lowered the coffin deeper.

Until one day,

there was only a man.

A man who looks upon humanity and feels no brotherhood.

No warmth.

No pride.

No longing to be welcomed home.

Only disgust.

And pity.

Pity most of all.

Because he no longer hates them for what they are.

He pities them for what they could have been.

He pities the species that learned to fly before learning how to stop crushing one another.

He pities the species that conquered oceans while drowning its own.

He pities the species that can understand the suffering of another creature and still choose to cause it.

And when someone calls him human,

something inside him recoils.

The word is not an identity anymore.

It is an insult.

A reminder.

A chain around the throat of the boy he used to be.

So he refuses it.

He will not claim their name.

He will not inherit their pride.

He will not call himself one of them.

Because somewhere in the ruins of his childhood still lies a boy who loved humanity with everything he had.

And that boy deserved a world worthy of his love.

Instead,

they took his kindness and called it cute.

They took his purity and taught it fear.

They took his faith and fed it suffering.

They took a child who would have given everything to them—

and gave him nothing but reasons to turn away.

So let humanity keep its name.

Let it keep its crowns.

Its flags.

Its gods.

Its wars.

Its beautiful speeches spoken over ugly deeds.

He wants none of it.

And yet—

he could not be silent.

No.

Silence was what they had taught him when he begged.

Silence was what they offered when he cried.

Silence was what surrounded him while he suffered.

He would not give it back to them.

So he wrote.

He drew.

He sang.

He screamed words into pages until ink became blood.

He took every lie they had spoken and dragged it into the light.

Every excuse.

Every hypocrisy.

Every polished word covering an ugly deed.

He bore their lies upon his back—

then laid them bare before the world.

They knocked him down.

Again.

And again.

And again.

And each time they looked upon the ground expecting him to remain there.

But they never understood.

They had mistaken his falling for surrender.

They had mistaken his silence for weakness.

They had mistaken his gentleness for something they could destroy without consequence.

So the man rose.

And something in him had changed.

He no longer spoke like the boy they remembered.

He snarled.

He howled.

A dog whipped one time too many does not forever remain the creature that trembled at the hand.

Eventually,

it bares its teeth.

Eventually,

it learns where to bite.

And eventually,

the thing that kept beating it discovers that the creature it thought was broken

still has a mouth.

So now—

he sinks his teeth into the conscience of his species.

Not flesh.

Not blood.

Truth.

He tears away the comforting skin they wrapped around themselves.

And when they recoil,

he holds up a mirror.

Look.

Look at yourselves.

Look at what you have made.

Look at the child you taught to fear.

Look at the kindness you mocked.

Look at the purity you corrupted.

Look at the faith you starved.

Look at the man standing before you.

This is your reflection.

His name is—

Abraxian.

He chose the name himself.

Not human.

Not savior.

Not prophet.

Not saint.

Abraxian.

He is not kind.

He does not care whether you approve of him.

He does not care whether you like his words.

He does not ask for your forgiveness.

He does not need your understanding.

He has no interest in being made comfortable by your opinion of him.

He only asks one thing:

Look.

Look into his world.

Look beyond the teeth.

Beyond the snarling.

Beyond the hatred you think you see.

And you may discover something far more terrible.

You may discover the boy.

The boy who loved you.

The boy who believed in you.

The boy who would have given everything he possessed to make this species a little kinder.

And then you may understand why he became the man standing before you.

Why he howls.

Why he writes.

Why he sings.

Why he refuses your name.

Why he holds the mirror instead of lowering it.

Because beneath every snarl there remains an accusation.

Beneath every howl there remains a plea.

And beneath every word there remains the ghost of a little boy still asking the question humanity never answered:

Why do we suffer greater than beasts?

And when the mirror finally stands before the world,

there is nowhere left to hide.

No crown.

No flag.

No god.

No law.

No beautiful speech.

Only the reflection.

Only the truth.

Only humanity staring into the eyes of the thing it created.

And Abraxian stares back.

He does not smile.

He does not forgive.

He does not look away.

He simply says—

“I am not one of you.”

And for the first time,

the words are not spoken by a wounded boy.

They are spoken by a man.

A man who survived what was meant to destroy him.

A man who lost his love for humanity—

but never lost his voice.

And perhaps that is humanity's greatest mistake.

They thought they could break him.

They never understood

that broken things can still howl.

And some of them

learn to bite.

I think today started off better before getting a little worse.

I took my surviving dog to daycare for the first time and caught up on all my entries after breakfast.

A few hours later I got a call from the daycare that he is not behaving well and instigating play with other dogs. I hope this is just a phase from the loss of our other dog.

I then proceeded to bed rot for a few hours, before getting a second call and being asked to pick him up. They said he was certainly welcomed back and that they thought he’s having a hard time readjusting after the loss of my other dog and being out of routine for several weeks. They recommended I bring him on the weekends when it is less busy or doing half-days during the week.

I finally started planning for my friend’s baby shower (only a few days away), but overall my energy and mood feel really low. Post-trip blues on top of grief and long road trip will really wear you down.

Thank you for your message. I am currently out of office with no set return date. I will get back to you when the time is right.

I Am Not One of You

Once, there was a boy who loved humanity.

Not the idea of it.

Not some distant dream of what mankind might become.

He loved the people themselves.

Their laughter.

Their hands.

Their fragile little lives burning against the vastness of an uncaring world.

He believed his species was beautiful.

He believed kindness was something sacred.

And he possessed it in abundance.

A gentle thing.

A tender thing.

A boy who would have given everything he owned to ease another's suffering.

And they laughed.

They called his kindness cute.

They smiled at his innocence as though innocence were something amusing to be outgrown.

Then they hurt him.

And when he begged—

they hurt him again.

Pain became his childhood.

Fear became his lullaby.

Suffering became the language spoken most fluently by the world around him.

He learned things no child should ever know.

He learned that a scream does not guarantee rescue.

That tears do not summon mercy.

That begging does not make cruel hands stop.

That sometimes the world hears a child crying

and simply

continues.

So he begged.

God, how he begged.

Not for greatness.

Not for riches.

Not for vengeance.

Only for someone to be kind.

Only for someone to look upon him and decide—

You have suffered enough.

No one came.

And slowly,

the thing inside him that had been pure began to change.

His kindness became caution.

His trust became fear.

His love became indifference.

His faith became silence.

And the boy who once believed humanity was worth everything began watching his people destroy one another.

He watched them wage wars over borders drawn in dirt.

He watched them slaughter for gods they claimed were loving.

He watched the strong devour the weak.

He watched the hungry be blamed for starving.

He watched the wounded be condemned for bleeding.

He watched children inherit the hatred of their fathers before they were old enough to understand why.

He watched men turn suffering into entertainment.

He watched cruelty become profitable.

He watched compassion become weakness.

He watched the powerful call their appetites principles.

And eventually he stopped asking—

How could they do this?

Because the answer became too obvious.

They could.

That was enough.

But one question remained.

One question that followed him through every sleepless night.

Through every memory.

Through every scar.

Through every grave.

He would look upon the forests and watch wolves hunt.

Yet after the hunt,

the pack remained a pack.

He watched animals protect their young.

Share warmth.

Mourn their dead.

Fight only because hunger demanded it.

And then he looked at mankind.

And wondered—

Why?

Why do we suffer greater than beasts?

Why does the creature that claims to possess reason invent a thousand reasons to be cruel?

Why does the creature that speaks of love practice hatred with such precision?

Why does the creature that builds temples also build prisons?

Why does the creature that writes poems write them beside graves it dug itself?

Why do we hurt those who cannot fight back?

Why do we abandon those who beg?

Why do we break what is gentle—

and then wonder why it became afraid?

He searched for the answer.

He searched in philosophy.

In religion.

In history.

In the faces of strangers.

In the faces of friends.

He searched inside himself.

And found nothing.

Only the terrible realization

that perhaps humanity was never the noble thing he believed it was.

Perhaps kindness was the exception.

Perhaps cruelty was the inheritance.

Perhaps civilization was only a thin white cloth draped over something ancient and hungry.

And perhaps the greatest lie he had ever been taught

was that being human was something to be proud of.

So the boy died.

Not in one moment.

That would have been mercy.

He died slowly.

Piece by piece.

Every cruelty buried another part of him.

Every abandonment covered another handful of earth.

Every unanswered plea lowered the coffin deeper.

Until one day,

there was only a man.

A man who looks upon humanity and feels no brotherhood.

No warmth.

No pride.

No longing to be welcomed home.

Only disgust.

And pity.

Pity most of all.

Because he no longer hates them for what they are.

He pities them for what they could have been.

He pities the species that learned to fly before learning how to stop crushing one another.

He pities the species that conquered oceans while drowning its own.

He pities the species that can understand the suffering of another creature and still choose to cause it.

And when someone calls him human,

something inside him recoils.

The word is not an identity anymore.

It is an insult.

A reminder.

A chain around the throat of the boy he used to be.

So he refuses it.

He will not claim their name.

He will not inherit their pride.

He will not call himself one of them.

Because somewhere in the ruins of his childhood still lies a boy who loved humanity with everything he had.

And that boy deserved a world worthy of his love.

Instead,

they took his kindness and called it cute.

They took his purity and taught it fear.

They took his faith and fed it suffering.

They took a child who would have given everything to them—

and gave him nothing but reasons to turn away.

So let humanity keep its name.

Let it keep its crowns.

Its flags.

Its gods.

Its wars.

Its beautiful speeches spoken over ugly deeds.

He wants none of it.

And yet—

he could not be silent.

No.

Silence was what they had taught him when he begged.

Silence was what they offered when he cried.

Silence was what surrounded him while he suffered.

He would not give it back to them.

So he wrote.

He drew.

He sang.

He screamed words into pages until ink became blood.

He took every lie they had spoken and dragged it into the light.

Every excuse.

Every hypocrisy.

Every polished word covering an ugly deed.

He bore their lies upon his back—

then laid them bare before the world.

They knocked him down.

Again.

And again.

And again.

And each time they looked upon the ground expecting him to remain there.

But they never understood.

They had mistaken his falling for surrender.

They had mistaken his silence for weakness.

They had mistaken his gentleness for something they could destroy without consequence.

So the man rose.

And something in him had changed.

He no longer spoke like the boy they remembered.

He snarled.

He howled.

A dog whipped one time too many does not forever remain the creature that trembled at the hand.

Eventually,

it bares its teeth.

Eventually,

it learns where to bite.

And eventually,

the thing that kept beating it discovers that the creature it thought was broken

still has a mouth.

So now—

he sinks his teeth into the conscience of his species.

Not flesh.

Not blood.

Truth.

He tears away the comforting skin they wrapped around themselves.

And when they recoil,

he holds up a mirror.

Look.

Look at yourselves.

Look at what you have made.

Look at the child you taught to fear.

Look at the kindness you mocked.

Look at the purity you corrupted.

Look at the faith you starved.

Look at the man standing before you.

This is your reflection.

His name is—

Abraxian.

He chose the name himself.

Not human.

Not savior.

Not prophet.

Not saint.

Abraxian.

He is not kind.

He does not care whether you approve of him.

He does not care whether you like his words.

He does not ask for your forgiveness.

He does not need your understanding.

He has no interest in being made comfortable by your opinion of him.

He only asks one thing:

Look.

Look into his world.

Look beyond the teeth.

Beyond the snarling.

Beyond the hatred you think you see.

And you may discover something far more terrible.

You may discover the boy.

The boy who loved you.

The boy who believed in you.

The boy who would have given everything he possessed to make this species a little kinder.

And then you may understand why he became the man standing before you.

Why he howls.

Why he writes.

Why he sings.

Why he refuses your name.

Why he holds the mirror instead of lowering it.

Because beneath every snarl there remains an accusation.

Beneath every howl there remains a plea.

And beneath every word there remains the ghost of a little boy still asking the question humanity never answered:

Why do we suffer greater than beasts?

And when the mirror finally stands before the world,

there is nowhere left to hide.

No crown.

No flag.

No god.

No law.

No beautiful speech.

Only the reflection.

Only the truth.

Only humanity staring into the eyes of the thing it created.

And Abraxian stares back.

He does not smile.

He does not forgive.

He does not look away.

He simply says—

“I am not one of you.”

And for the first time,

the words are not spoken by a wounded boy.

They are spoken by a man.

A man who survived what was meant to destroy him.

A man who lost his love for humanity—

but never lost his voice.

And perhaps that is humanity's greatest mistake.

They thought they could break him.

They never understood

that broken things can still howl.

And some of them

learn to bite.

How to Survive a Zombie Invasion- Part 2: Slow, Truly Undead Zombies

Now we will handle the Romero type zombies. These ones really bend the laws of physics and everything we know about biology, but since they are so installed in the zeitgeist of undead fiction I think they are worth addressing. The following is an official summary of how to approach such an event.

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PUBLIC SURVIVAL GUIDANCE FOR A UNIVERSAL REANIMATION EVENT

This guidance applies to an event in which any person who dies, or who has died recently enough to remain physically mobile, reanimates and attempts to attack and consume living sentient beings. Reanimated individuals are assumed to move slowly, possess little or no higher reasoning, and remain active despite the failure of normal organ systems. They do not require food, water, sleep, respiration, circulation, or other ordinary biological support. Bites or similar exposure can produce a progressive infection that may eventually kill the victim, after which that person also reanimates. Reanimated bodies remain mobile until the brain is destroyed or physical deterioration makes movement impossible. Normal decomposition is greatly slowed.

The recommendations below are based on risk minimization rather than combat. The principal survival problem changes over time. During the opening hours, uncontrolled reanimation and public panic are the dominant hazards. During the following days and weeks, surviving humans, disrupted infrastructure, fire, disease, shortages, and the temporary collapse of lawful authority may become more dangerous than individual undead. Once organized government and communities recover, the long-term advantage shifts overwhelmingly toward the living because the undead cannot plan, learn, cooperate, repair equipment, reproduce independently, or adapt to containment.

1. IDENTIFY THE THREAT

Any human death must be treated as a potential reanimation event. A person does not need to have been bitten in order to become undead. A fatal heart attack, accident, shooting, untreated illness, overdose, natural death, or other cause produces the same secondary hazard. This distinction is critical. Avoiding bites reduces infection but does not eliminate reanimation from a community. Every functioning household, hospital, shelter, prison, nursing home, military unit, and settlement must eventually develop procedures for dealing with death.

The undead are slow and unintelligent but persistent. They wander without apparent purpose until they detect a living sentient target, after which they pursue it. An isolated undead individual in an open area is therefore usually less dangerous than an armed human, a structural fire, or a contaminated water supply. Large concentrations are different. Slow movement does not make hundreds of bodies pressing into a confined space harmless. Risk increases sharply when undead density rises, exits are limited, visibility is poor, or a person becomes trapped.

Ordinary injuries that would incapacitate a living person may not reliably stop the undead because their organs no longer perform normal life-support functions. Destruction of the brain is assumed to be the only immediately reliable form of permanent neutralization. Physical containment is therefore often safer than attempting destruction. A reanimated person behind a durable barrier that it cannot circumvent has effectively been removed from the active threat population and can be dealt with later by organized personnel.

Bites and contaminated wounds should be treated as medical emergencies. Because the infection progresses slowly in this scenario, an exposed person has time to report the injury, isolate from others, seek medical assistance if available, and prepare for the possibility that the infection will become fatal. Concealing a bite greatly increases community risk because the eventual death creates a new undead individual inside what may otherwise be a secure area.

The most important behavioral advantage available to survivors is predictability. The undead do not appear to recognize traps, coordinate, assess risk, remember previous failures, or distinguish between a genuinely accessible victim and a protected person attracting their attention. Organized survivors can eventually exploit this by drawing mobile undead toward secure containment areas and then avoiding those areas until controlled clearing is possible. The objective is not to fight every undead individual encountered. It is to reduce uncontrolled contact.

1. IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE OUTBREAK: FIRST 24 HOURS

During the first 24 hours, the correct default action for most people is to reach the nearest secure, familiar location and remain there. Do not attempt to cross a city, drive hundreds of miles to relatives, reach a rural retreat, or acquire large quantities of supplies unless remaining where you are presents an immediate danger. The opening phase combines reanimation with widespread ignorance about the rules, emergency calls, traffic collisions, panic buying, hospital overload, police confusion, fires, and ordinary deaths that unexpectedly produce additional attackers.

Hospitals, nursing homes, emergency departments, morgues, funeral facilities, transportation hubs, and crowded public spaces may be especially dangerous during the opening hours. These locations contain both large numbers of people and unusually high rates of death. Until medical institutions understand that every death can produce immediate violence, repeated internal outbreaks are likely. A person with a non-life-threatening injury may therefore face more danger entering an overwhelmed hospital than remaining temporarily sheltered.

Once secure, immediately inventory the location. Store safe drinking water while service remains available. Identify food, medication, first-aid supplies, lighting, batteries, fire extinguishers, warm clothing, sanitation supplies, radios, charging equipment, tools, and every usable exit. Do not barricade yourself so completely that fire or human attack leaves no escape route. A building that is difficult for the undead to enter but impossible for its occupants to leave is not a good shelter.

Electricity, water, cellular service, and internet connectivity should be used while available, but their loss should not automatically trigger evacuation. Assess consequences instead. Loss of internet is principally an information problem. Loss of electricity may be an inconvenience in mild weather but a serious hazard if it disables heat, water pumps, refrigerated medication, medical equipment, sewage systems, or safe lighting. Loss of municipal water creates a finite water runway but is not automatically an immediate emergency if substantial safe water has already been stored.

Information during the first day will be unreliable. Give greater weight to repeated messages from established government broadcasters, emergency management agencies, military commands, hospitals, and multiple independent sources than to individual social-media posts or rumors. Do not physically investigate nearby disturbances merely to determine what is happening. Uncertainty is generally less dangerous than unnecessary exposure during the first hours.

If another person dies inside your shelter, treat the body as an immediate containment hazard. Create distance and do not assume the deceased will remain motionless. If a person is critically ill or has suffered an apparently fatal injury, other occupants should be prepared for reanimation without placing themselves within reach. Once the basic reanimation rule is confirmed, all communities must assume that death itself requires a controlled response.

1. PHASE I — HIDE FROM CHAOS: APPROXIMATELY DAYS 1–7, POSSIBLY LONGER

The purpose of Phase I is not to wait for the undead to die naturally. They may remain active for a very long time. The purpose is to allow the living population and surviving institutions to understand the phenomenon, stop producing preventable casualties, establish death-control procedures, clear key infrastructure, and restore enough command and communication that movement becomes less dangerous.

The length of this phase will differ dramatically by location. In a major city with intact state and federal government outside the affected zone, organized response may arrive quickly because dense population, major hospitals, utilities, transportation networks, government buildings, and economic infrastructure receive priority. The first two or three days may be catastrophic, but large police, fire, National Guard, military, public-works, and medical resources can also be concentrated there. A city may therefore experience the worst initial conditions while recovering organized control sooner than expected.

Suburban areas may have a somewhat longer but less intense Phase I. Individual neighborhoods contain fewer undead than dense city centers and detached homes are relatively defensible, but police and emergency services may initially concentrate on population centers, hospitals, major roads, and critical infrastructure. A suburban household should therefore be prepared to function independently for at least several days even if government remains intact.

Rural areas may experience the least immediate undead pressure but the longest delay before organized assistance arrives. A farmhouse several miles from the nearest town may see almost no undead during the first week, yet sheriff's deputies, ambulances, utility crews, and organized clearing teams may be overwhelmed elsewhere. Rural residents should not interpret the absence of official presence as proof that government has collapsed. It may simply reflect prioritization. Their low population density is itself a major survival advantage and should not be surrendered by unnecessary travel into towns.

During Phase I, remain at your existing shelter while it remains secure, has adequate water and food, maintains tolerable temperature, and contains no medical emergency requiring movement. Ordinary hunger, boredom, loss of entertainment, or rumors of supplies elsewhere are not sufficient reasons to leave. The most dangerous locations are likely to be the places everyone else considers useful: supermarkets, fuel stations, pharmacies, hospitals, gun stores, evacuation centers, major bridges, and highway interchanges.

Undead encountered near the shelter should generally be avoided or contained rather than individually confronted. If a durable gate, fenced yard, locked interior space, loading enclosure, or similar structure can isolate a wandering undead person without close contact, containment may solve the immediate problem. The same principle scales upward after conditions stabilize: predictable undead can sometimes be encouraged toward controlled areas from behind secure barriers, allowing scattered threats to become concentrated and easier for organized teams to manage. Civilians should avoid improvised mass burning. An undead body that does not rely on normal organ function may remain mobile while burning, creating a moving ignition source and potentially causing structure fires, wildfires, toxic smoke, or destruction of useful infrastructure.

Fire deserves special attention throughout this phase. Reduced firefighting capacity, unattended cooking, damaged electrical systems, crashed vehicles, generators, and deliberate attempts to destroy undead can create fires that are much more dangerous than individual zombies. Maintain exits, keep ignition sources under control, and do not create barricades that prevent rapid escape.

The same is true of ordinary illness. Contaminated water, untreated wounds, diarrhea, respiratory disease, hypothermia, heat illness, and medication interruption remain capable of killing living people. In this scenario, every preventable human death also creates an additional undead hazard. Preserving sanitation and medical stability therefore has both an individual and community benefit.

Phase I ends locally rather than nationally. The practical signs are not a particular calendar date but a change in conditions: repeated official broadcasts, sustained police or military presence, functioning controlled checkpoints, reopened water or food distribution, systematic clearing, organized medical services, and credible evidence that deaths are being handled under new reanimation protocols. In some city neighborhoods this might occur within several days. In remote areas it may take weeks.

1. PHASE II — RESUPPLY AS NECESSARY; HUMAN BEINGS MAY BE THE GREATER THREAT

Once the basic behavior of the undead is understood, individual zombies become comparatively predictable. Human beings do not. During the interval between initial collapse and restoration of reliable law enforcement, armed robbery, coercion, organized looting, fraudulent authority, territorial groups, and potentially rogue police or military personnel may represent a greater threat than isolated undead.

This does not mean survivors should assume every stranger is hostile. Cooperation is one of the living population's greatest advantages. It means unknown people should be treated as uncertain rather than automatically friendly or automatically hostile. Distance, observation, verification, and controlled access are preferable to immediate confrontation.

A small network of known neighbors is usually more valuable than complete isolation. Trusted households can share information, detect fires, identify unattended deaths, watch approaches, assist with injuries, pool skills, and communicate with authorities. The risk rises when a group expands faster than trust, sanitation, food, leadership, and accountability can support it. A settlement of fifty strangers with no functioning rules can be more dangerous than five cooperating households that know one another.

Resources should not be displayed unnecessarily. A house visibly operating bright exterior lighting, a large generator, multiple vehicles, substantial fuel stores, or obvious stockpiles may attract human attention. This does not mean living in darkness or refusing to use lifesaving equipment. It means avoiding unnecessary advertisement of scarcity-sensitive resources.

The preferred response to an armed group is avoidance, not a contest over property. Food, equipment, vehicles, and fuel are valuable but replaceable. A confrontation that causes several deaths can immediately create several new undead in addition to the human casualties. Survivors should preserve multiple exits, maintain early warning, and avoid allowing themselves to become trapped in a residence that is highly defensible against zombies but vulnerable to fire or intelligent attackers.

Claims of official authority should be verified when conditions permit. A uniform, badge, marked vehicle, or military equipment is evidence but not proof. Equipment can be stolen, and legitimate personnel may become separated from command. Stronger indicators include consistent procedures, multiple identifiable personnel, communication with a known command structure, repeated official broadcasts, established supply or medical operations, coordination with neighboring jurisdictions, and rules that remain consistent over time. An isolated group of armed people operating an improvised roadblock and demanding property should not automatically be treated as legitimate government merely because one member wears a uniform.

Conversely, surviving police, firefighters, National Guard units, military personnel, utility workers, and local officials should generally be assumed to be attempting restoration of public order unless credible evidence indicates otherwise. The objective is not to encourage civilians to challenge authority but to distinguish functioning accountable institutions from individuals exploiting their former or stolen status.

Travel during Phase II should be purposeful. The survivor should be able to state what resource is needed, where it is expected to be found, what route will be used, what alternatives exist, and what condition will cause the trip to be abandoned. A journey merely to “look around” creates exposure without purchasing meaningful survival value.

Urban, suburban, and rural risk diverges significantly during this phase. Large cities may regain organized security comparatively early because government has strong incentives to restore hospitals, water systems, communications, transit corridors, ports, bridges, and dense residential areas. Once major routes are secured, urban residents may actually have better access to official distribution and medical care than isolated rural households.

Suburbs may recover in a patchwork pattern. Main roads and commercial centers may be controlled while individual developments receive little direct attention. Neighborhood-level cooperation becomes particularly valuable because relatively small groups can monitor streets, report concentrations of undead, and maintain local order until full police service resumes.

Rural residents may wait longest for formal law enforcement. This does not necessarily make rural areas more dangerous overall; their low population density may mean fewer undead and fewer strangers. But when hostile humans do appear, response times may be extremely long or nonexistent. Rural households therefore benefit disproportionately from communication with known neighbors, awareness of functioning county government, and avoiding conspicuous concentrations of valuable supplies.

The undead themselves can increasingly be managed through containment. A wandering individual that can be shut behind a durable barrier no longer requires immediate destruction. Small communities can gradually account for local undead, isolate them, mark dangerous locations, and report concentrations to organized clearing units. Where authorities are absent, the priority remains reducing contact rather than maximizing kills.

Phase II may last only days in a well-governed metropolitan area or several weeks to months in remote or badly affected regions. The end of Phase II is marked by the return of predictable law: reliable policing, functioning courts or emergency authority, regular food and water distribution, restored communications, accountable checkpoints, medical facilities operating under reanimation protocols, and credible procedures for reporting and removing undead.

1. PHASE III — RECOVERY: ORGANIZE AND CLEAR

Once lawful authority and basic infrastructure recover, individual survivalism should become less important, not more. The long-term advantage of organized human society over the undead is overwhelming. Humans can communicate, map, manufacture, repair, transport, build barriers, use surveillance, restore power, coordinate large operations, learn from mistakes, and improve procedures. The undead can do none of these things.

The first objective of recovery is not exterminating every undead individual. It is establishing controlled territory. Roads, water plants, hospitals, power stations, communications facilities, food warehouses, fuel depots, schools, and residential districts can be cleared in priority order. Boundaries can then be monitored while remaining undead outside controlled zones are gradually contained or removed.

Attraction behavior becomes particularly useful at this stage. Because the undead reliably move toward detectable living targets and apparently cannot recognize deception or learn from repeated failures, organized teams can use protected attraction points to encourage scattered undead to move into predetermined containment areas. Secure enclosures can transform dozens or hundreds of independently wandering threats into a single known hazard. Once contained, there is rarely an immediate reason for civilians to approach them. Permanent neutralization can be conducted later by trained clearing personnel using controlled procedures appropriate to the fictional requirement that the brain be destroyed.

This produces a critical distinction between clearing and killing. A town does not need every undead body destroyed before normal life can resume. It needs uncontrolled undead removed from locations where they can reach living people. An industrial yard containing 300 securely confined undead may represent less immediate risk than three unaccounted-for undead wandering through residential buildings.

Death management becomes permanent infrastructure. Hospitals and nursing homes require secure procedures for expected deaths. Emergency departments must treat fatal trauma as both a medical and security event. Households must know how to report deaths. Unattended deaths require specialized response. Morgues and funeral practices must be redesigned around the fact that a body may reanimate. A community that successfully clears every existing zombie but ignores ordinary mortality will repeatedly recreate the problem inside its own perimeter.

Over time, new building standards and operating procedures would likely emerge. Hospitals, prisons, elder-care facilities, shelters, and other locations where death is comparatively common would require physical controls that limit the ability of a newly reanimated body to reach others. Communities would maintain rapid-response teams for unattended deaths and newly discovered undead. Public education would teach children and adults how to recognize and report reanimation in much the same way existing societies teach fire, severe-weather, or emergency procedures.

Transportation networks would gradually reopen because slow undead cannot compete with organized motorized movement once roads are controlled. Agricultural production could resume. Power plants and water systems could be restored. Manufacturing would allow replacement of damaged equipment. Communications would permit government to identify concentrations of undead and direct resources efficiently. Each restored system makes the next restoration easier.

The long-term undead population should therefore decline substantially even though the phenomenon never disappears completely. Existing zombies are permanently removed through clearing and accidents that destroy their mobility, while new zombies arise mainly from human deaths that escape established containment procedures. As institutions improve, the number of uncontrolled new reanimations should become progressively smaller.

The geographic order of recovery will not necessarily follow population density. Major cities may receive the earliest concentrated government response because of their population and critical infrastructure, but also require the largest clearing operations. Suburban areas may stabilize rapidly once metropolitan corridors reopen. Rural areas may remain outside continuous government presence longer, yet require far fewer resources to secure because undead density is low. A remote county could therefore remain largely self-managed for weeks and still experience fewer casualties than a city brought under formal control after four days.

Ultimately, this event should be understood less as a permanent war against an intelligent enemy than as a catastrophic transition to a world containing a new persistent hazard. The opening outbreak could kill enormous numbers of people because society does not initially understand that every death produces another attacker. The temporary collapse of institutions could then allow human violence, fire, disease, and shortages to cause additional casualties. Neither advantage lasts indefinitely. The undead do not learn. Humans do.

Once deaths are controlled, communities cooperate, infrastructure returns, mobile undead are systematically contained, and lawful government reestablishes authority, the balance shifts steadily toward the living. The objective of an individual survivor is therefore not to become permanently self-sufficient or personally eliminate every undead encountered. It is to survive long enough to pass through three distinct risk environments: the initial chaos, the period of uncertain human order, and the transition back into organized society.

During the first, hide from chaos. During the second, move only for a reason, cooperate selectively, and remember that unpredictable humans may be more dangerous than predictable undead. During the third, rejoin functioning institutions, help establish controlled territory, and allow organized systems to turn the undead from an existential crisis into a manageable public-safety problem.

Now we will look at three hypotheticals: The Hero, someone who tries to take control of the situation early; The Pacificist, someone who avoids conflict and violence at all costs; and The Pragmatist, someone who follows this guide:

The Hero

The Hero responds to the outbreak by intervening early and repeatedly. This individual may assist strangers, enter unstable public areas, transport injured people, or attempt to clear nearby undead before reliable procedures are established. The principal risk is cumulative exposure. If each major intervention carries even a 5 to 10 percent chance of death, serious injury, or infection, repeated interventions rapidly reduce total survival probability. Six exposures with a 95 percent success rate each produce only about a 74 percent chance of avoiding failure across all six; at a 90 percent success rate, that falls to about 53 percent.

Under a severe initial outbreak, the Hero’s estimated survival probability is approximately 55–70 percent after 24 hours, 40–55 percent after three days, and 35–50 percent after one week. The losses are front-loaded because the individual is operating during the period of greatest uncertainty, highest crowd density, most frequent unexpected reanimation, and weakest institutional control. If the Hero survives the first week, subsequent risk may decline substantially as the rules become understood and organized clearing replaces improvised intervention.

The Pacifist

The Pacifist avoids nearly all contact and remains concealed for as long as possible. This strategy performs very well during the opening phase because it eliminates most exposure to crowds, undead, traffic, violence, and confusion. Assuming a secure shelter and no major medical emergency, survival probability may remain approximately 97–99 percent after 24 hours, 94–98 percent after three days, and 90–95 percent after one week.

The weakness of the strategy appears over longer periods. Continued isolation eventually increases the importance of food, water, medication, fire, sanitation, and human threats. A person who refuses all movement or cooperation may remain safe from immediate undead contact while becoming progressively less able to respond to shortages, illness, armed intruders, or changing conditions outside. Under a prolonged disruption, estimated survival may decline to roughly 75–85 percent after two weeks and 55–70 percent after one month. The Pacifist therefore minimizes acute risk effectively but may fail to adapt when the dominant hazard shifts away from the initial outbreak.

The Pragmatist

The Pragmatist minimizes exposure during the initial crisis but does not treat isolation as a permanent objective. This individual remains sheltered while public disorder is at its peak, inventories essential resources, avoids unnecessary combat, and delays travel until conditions become more predictable. As risk shifts, the Pragmatist establishes contact with trusted neighbors, resupplies before critical shortages develop, verifies legitimate authorities, relocates if the shelter becomes unsafe, and participates in organized containment rather than improvised individual clearing.

Under the same assumptions, the Pragmatist has the strongest projected survival curve: approximately 98–99 percent after 24 hours, 96–98 percent after three days, 93–96 percent after one week, 88–93 percent after two weeks, and roughly 80–90 percent after one month. The advantage comes from timing rather than combat capability. The Pragmatist avoids the Hero’s repeated early exposures while also avoiding the Pacifist’s later problem of passive resource depletion. In risk-management terms, this strategy is superior because it changes behavior as the dominant hazard changes.

So in summary, if the zombies are living infected, sit and wait it out. If they are actually undead, sit and wait it out for a while, but eventually organize and clear up the stragglers. Either way, I think humanity survives.