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Originally published at https://theemergenceforum.substack.com.

There are chapters in Scripture that feel like they are speaking directly into the modern moment, and then there is 2 Peter 3, which feels as if it has been waiting for us. Not waiting politely. Waiting patiently. Waiting with the kind of calm that only comes from certainty. This chapter doesn’t rush to comfort us. It slows us down first. It asks us to reconsider our sense of time, our impatience with God, our frustration with the world, and our quiet assumption that if God hasn’t acted yet, maybe He won’t. It is a chapter written for people who are tired of waiting, confused by delay, and tempted to believe that silence means absence.

We live in an age where speed is mistaken for progress and immediacy is mistaken for importance. If something doesn’t happen quickly, we assume it isn’t happening at all. If a promise isn’t fulfilled on our timeline, we quietly downgrade its credibility. That mindset doesn’t stay confined to technology or culture. It bleeds into faith. We begin to evaluate God the same way we evaluate apps, deliveries, updates, and news cycles. And when God doesn’t move as fast as we expect, we don’t always say it out loud, but something inside us starts whispering that maybe He’s late. Maybe He’s slow. Maybe He’s forgotten. Maybe the promise was overstated to begin with.

Second Peter chapter three confronts that whisper head-on. It does not argue with sarcasm or force. It reasons with truth. Peter writes to believers who are facing mockery, doubt, and internal fatigue. He knows the pressure they’re under. He knows the voices surrounding them. He knows the questions forming in their minds. And instead of offering quick reassurance, he reframes the entire conversation. He doesn’t start with the future. He starts with memory. He reminds them of what God has already done, because faith collapses most quickly when we forget history.

Peter begins by addressing scoffers, not as an abstract group, but as a real and growing presence. These are not cartoon villains. They are articulate, confident, persuasive voices who say, “Where is the promise of His coming?” They point to the apparent stability of the world and argue that everything has always continued as it is. In other words, they say, “Look around. Nothing has changed. Nothing dramatic is coming. Life keeps going. Generations rise and fall. God isn’t interrupting anything.” And to a tired believer, that argument can sound reasonable.

The danger Peter highlights is not that scoffers exist, but that their logic feels familiar. It mirrors the internal reasoning we use when disappointment piles up. We don’t usually reject God outright. We simply adjust our expectations downward. We stop anticipating. We stop hoping boldly. We stop living as if God might still act decisively. The promise of Christ’s return becomes theological information instead of living anticipation. And when that happens, faith doesn’t die loudly. It slowly calcifies.

Peter responds by reminding them that the world has already been interrupted before. He takes them back to creation, to the flood, to moments when God’s word altered reality itself. The argument is simple but devastating to the scoffer’s position: stability does not equal permanence. Continuity does not mean immunity. Just because something has continued for a long time does not mean it cannot change suddenly when God speaks. The same word that formed the heavens and the earth is the word that sustains them. And that same word can also bring them to an appointed end.

This is where Peter introduces one of the most misunderstood ideas in the chapter: God’s relationship to time. “With the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.” This verse is often quoted casually, but its weight is rarely felt. Peter is not offering a poetic exaggeration. He is dismantling our assumption that God experiences time the way we do. God does not live inside time as a prisoner of it. Time is not a constraint on Him. It is a tool He uses. That means delay, as we experience it, does not imply hesitation on God’s part. What feels slow to us may be perfectly precise to Him.

This is deeply uncomfortable for us, because we want God to share our urgency. We want Him to feel the pressure we feel. We want Him to rush because we are rushing. But Peter flips the interpretation entirely. The apparent slowness of God is not weakness. It is mercy. God is not slow in keeping His promise. He is patient, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. In other words, what we interpret as delay is actually space. Space for people to turn. Space for grace to reach further than we expected. Space for lives to change that would not have changed if judgment had arrived sooner.

That reframing forces us to confront an uncomfortable truth: sometimes our desire for God to act quickly is not rooted in righteousness, but in exhaustion or frustration. We want resolution because waiting hurts. We want closure because uncertainty is heavy. We want the story to move forward because living in the middle is difficult. And God acknowledges that pain, but He does not surrender His purpose to our impatience. He chooses mercy over speed. He chooses redemption over efficiency.

Peter does not allow this patience to be misunderstood as passivity. He makes it clear that the day of the Lord will come. It will come unexpectedly. It will come decisively. It will come in a way that dismantles the illusion of permanence. The imagery he uses is intentionally unsettling. He describes the heavens passing away, the elements being dissolved, the earth exposed. This is not meant to inspire fear for fear’s sake. It is meant to awaken seriousness. If everything we see is temporary, then everything we live for must be evaluated differently.

And this is where the chapter turns inward. Peter asks a question that lingers uncomfortably long after it is read: “What kind of people ought you to be?” If the world as we know it is not ultimate, then how should that reality shape our lives now? This is not a question about panic or withdrawal. It is not a call to abandon responsibility or disengage from the world. It is a call to live with alignment. To live in holiness and godliness not as an escape, but as a reflection of what is coming.

Holiness in this chapter is not presented as moral perfectionism. It is presented as orientation. It is a life pointed in the right direction. A life that makes sense in light of eternity. A life that does not cling desperately to what cannot last. Peter is not asking believers to speculate endlessly about timelines. He is asking them to live faithfully in the present because the future is secure. The certainty of what God will do is meant to shape who we are becoming now.

This is where many modern readings of 2 Peter 3 go off track. We turn it into a debate about dates, sequences, and end-times charts. Peter turns it into a conversation about character. He is far more concerned with how waiting transforms us than with how long waiting lasts. He does not measure faithfulness by how accurately we predict events, but by how deeply we embody hope, integrity, and perseverance while we wait.

The promise Peter holds out is not just that the old will pass away, but that something new is coming. A new heaven and a new earth where righteousness dwells. This is not destruction for destruction’s sake. It is renewal. It is restoration. It is the fulfillment of everything God has been moving toward from the beginning. The fire Peter describes is not random chaos. It is refining purpose. It removes what cannot remain so that what should remain can finally flourish.

Living in anticipation of that future is not about fear. It is about clarity. When you know where history is going, you stop being shocked by resistance along the way. You stop being destabilized by mockery. You stop interpreting opposition as failure. You begin to see delay not as abandonment, but as opportunity. Opportunity to grow. Opportunity to witness. Opportunity to love deeply in a world that is still being invited, not yet concluded.

Peter closes this portion of the chapter by encouraging believers to make every effort to be found at peace with God, spotless and blameless. Again, this is not about anxiety-driven perfection. It is about relational integrity. Being at peace with God means not fighting His patience. It means not resenting His mercy. It means trusting that His timing is not a threat to our lives, but the framework within which our lives gain meaning.

There is a quiet humility in this chapter that often gets overlooked. Peter acknowledges that some of what Paul writes is hard to understand. He admits that Scripture can be twisted by those who are unstable. That honesty matters. It reminds us that faith is not pretending everything is simple. It is committing to truth even when it stretches us. It is staying rooted when interpretation becomes contested. It is refusing to let confusion turn into cynicism.

Second Peter chapter three does not give us a countdown. It gives us a compass. It does not tell us how many days remain. It tells us how to live well in whatever days we are given. It invites us to trust a God who is not bound by our clocks, not pressured by our expectations, and not careless with His promises. It calls us to grow in grace and knowledge, not in fear or speculation.

When time feels broken and God feels late, this chapter reminds us that the story is still moving exactly where it needs to go. The waiting is not wasted. The patience is not neglect. The silence is not absence. It is mercy at work, giving the world one more chance, and then another, and then another. And while we wait, we are not meant to stand still. We are meant to become people whose lives already reflect the world that is coming.

Now, we will move deeper into how this chapter reshapes our understanding of endurance, spiritual growth, and the quiet strength required to live faithfully in the long middle of God’s promises.

…The long middle is where most faith is actually formed. Not in the dramatic moments, not in the sudden breakthroughs, not even in the clear answers, but in the stretch of time where nothing obvious changes and yet everything internal is being shaped. Second Peter chapter three understands this better than most passages. It is written to people who are not standing at the beginning of belief or celebrating the end of fulfillment. They are living in between. And Peter refuses to let that space be wasted.

One of the most important shifts this chapter demands is a change in how we interpret endurance. Endurance is often misunderstood as passive survival, as if faithfulness simply means holding on long enough without falling apart. But Peter presents endurance as active growth. He does not tell believers to merely wait. He tells them to live in a way that aligns with what they are waiting for. That distinction matters. Passive waiting leads to stagnation. Active anticipation leads to transformation.

Peter’s concern is not that believers might stop believing altogether, but that they might slowly disengage. That they might grow dull, distracted, or resigned. That they might begin to live as if the promises of God are theoretical rather than imminent. The danger is not disbelief; it is drift. Drift is subtle. It happens when urgency fades, when hope becomes abstract, when holiness feels optional rather than essential. Drift doesn’t announce itself. It simply pulls you a little further from center each day.

That is why Peter emphasizes growth. He closes the chapter by urging believers to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ. Growth is not automatic. It requires intention. It requires attention. It requires resisting the temptation to freeze spiritually while waiting for external circumstances to change. Peter knows that if faith is not growing, it is vulnerable. A stagnant faith becomes fragile under pressure. A growing faith becomes resilient.

Grace and knowledge are paired deliberately. Grace without knowledge becomes sentimentality. Knowledge without grace becomes arrogance. Together, they form a faith that is both humble and grounded. Grace reminds us that we are sustained by God, not by our own effort. Knowledge reminds us that faith is not blind, but rooted in truth. Growth in both allows believers to navigate uncertainty without panic and delay without despair.

This growth is especially critical in a world where scoffing has become sophisticated. The scoffers Peter describes are not crude mockers. They are confident analysts of reality. They appeal to patterns, to consistency, to observable history. They argue that nothing supernatural is necessary to explain the world as it is. And when believers internalize that logic, even subtly, faith begins to shrink into a private comfort rather than a living hope.

Peter counters this by reminding believers that God’s promises are not disproven by patience. They are demonstrated through it. Every moment of delay is evidence that God’s plan is larger than immediate resolution. It includes people we have not yet met, lives that have not yet turned, stories that are not yet finished. The patience of God is not about postponing justice indefinitely. It is about allowing redemption to reach its intended fullness.

This forces a difficult but necessary self-examination. When we long for God to act quickly, are we longing for righteousness to prevail, or are we longing for discomfort to end? When we become frustrated with God’s timing, are we truly aligned with His heart, or are we asking Him to serve our sense of urgency? Peter does not accuse. He invites reflection. And that invitation is an act of grace.

The imagery of fire and dissolution in this chapter can be unsettling, but it serves a clarifying purpose. It strips away illusions. It exposes what is temporary. It confronts our tendency to anchor our lives in systems, structures, and achievements that feel stable but are ultimately fragile. Peter is not calling believers to despise the world, but to see it accurately. Love the world, yes, but do not mistake it for the destination.

The promise of a new heaven and a new earth is not escapism. It is grounding. It gives believers a reference point that prevents despair when the present world disappoints. It also prevents idolatry when the present world succeeds. When you know that something better is coming, you are freed from clinging desperately to what cannot last. You can engage fully without being consumed. You can serve faithfully without demanding immediate results.

This perspective reshapes suffering. Suffering is no longer evidence that God has abandoned the timeline. It becomes part of the refining process. Not every hardship is a judgment. Not every delay is a denial. Some are invitations to deeper trust. Peter does not glorify suffering, but he refuses to let it redefine God’s character. The same God who will one day make all things new is the God who is present in the waiting now.

There is also a communal dimension to this chapter that deserves attention. Peter is writing to a community, not just individuals. Waiting is not meant to be done alone. Growth is not meant to be isolated. Faith is strengthened when believers remind each other of truth, challenge each other toward holiness, and encourage each other to remain steady when the surrounding culture becomes dismissive or hostile. Isolation magnifies doubt. Community stabilizes hope.

Peter’s warning about distorted interpretations of Scripture underscores this need for communal discernment. When individuals detach from the broader body of faith, they become more susceptible to confusion and manipulation. Growth in knowledge is not merely personal study; it is shared wisdom. It is learning within the context of accountability and humility. Peter’s acknowledgment that some teachings are difficult is not a weakness. It is an invitation to patience and care in interpretation.

What emerges from this chapter is a vision of faith that is mature, steady, and deeply hopeful. Not frantic. Not defensive. Not naïve. It is a faith that understands the weight of history and the certainty of God’s promises. It does not demand constant reassurance. It rests in the character of God. It trusts that what feels delayed is not neglected. It believes that what is unseen is no less real than what is visible.

Second Peter chapter three ultimately reframes the question we are tempted to ask. Instead of “Why hasn’t God acted yet?” it leads us to ask, “Who am I becoming while I wait?” That question is far more transformative. It shifts responsibility inward without removing hope outward. It calls us to live intentionally, to grow deliberately, and to align our lives with the future God has promised rather than the impatience we feel.

The chapter ends not with fear, but with worship. “To Him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity.” That closing line matters. It reminds us that God’s glory is not postponed until the end. It is present now. It is visible in patience, in growth, in faithfulness, in mercy that outlasts mockery. Eternity does not diminish the present; it gives it meaning.

If there is a single thread running through this chapter, it is trust. Trust that God knows what He is doing. Trust that His timing is purposeful. Trust that growth matters more than speed. Trust that waiting is not wasted. And trust that the same God who has been faithful in the past will be faithful in the future, even when the middle feels long and uncertain.

Second Peter chapter three does not remove the tension of waiting. It sanctifies it. It teaches us how to live inside it without losing heart. It invites us to see delay as mercy, endurance as formation, and hope as an anchor rather than an escape. And it calls us to live now in a way that already reflects the world God is bringing into being.

That is not easy faith. But it is durable faith. And it is the kind of faith that can stand quietly, confidently, and unwaveringly in the long unfolding of God’s promises.

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19 December 2025

Terminal advertisement (working title): a painting put into action today based on seeing that aforementioned Brazil tourism ad of Christ the Redeemer while on a moving walkway on my way through Heathrow. There's something emerging in the studio about the reconstruction of particular moments of seeing that I hope is beginning to stretch beyond the full stop stillness I have (subconsciously) tried to capture in the past. And I think it has to do with identifying imagistic planes that somehow relate to the multiplicity of specific lived sensations. In the recall of the kinds of scenes I'm inclined to paint, I'm finding—through photos, sketches, and memory—that there becomes a kind of 360 degree inventory of phenomena that holds possible planar ingredients. And while I don't want to fall into the trap of manufacturing those ingredients, I do think they are worth noticing. In Flat window, they were represented by a combination of perceptions related to reflections, barriers, borderlines, and changes in light that became essentially a sequence of transparencies to layer on top of one another toward a hybrid image.

In this painting today, it seemed like the phenomena were less distinct and perhaps manifested more as a melding of planes rather than a separating and layering of them. I think I can trace this to the experience of seeing the advertisement itself: the micro shifts in fluorescent light bouncing off of the vinyl image as I passed it, the ambiguous tonal environment around it that seemed to blend into a big neutral goop, seeing the seams between each vinyl panel and then losing them again—those were the bits of recall that became planar and then united in shapelessness, the Christ figure a strangely warping and beckoning bit of solidity swimming in and around them.

17 December 2025

It's becoming clear that my process outside of the studio is just as important as inside it. I guess that has always been the case, but it's glaring now—the difference in the quality of work I create when I allow myself the space to cycle through the natural stages of a seed of inquiry sprouting organically versus just hard-headed, research-oriented hammering away is obvious. Painting is about striving to live with such fullness of experience and such attention to detail that the work becomes inevitable, because to hold it would be to block a vital passageway. If there's an appropriate balance of making and living, then the work itself will be alive.

15 December 2025

So much of what I've been working through recently has had to do with reconciling seeing while in motion with the fact of paintings as inherently stable and framed objects. Thought it might be a worthwhile exercise to turn that on its head and see if I could approach an image in the opposite way. That is, seeing something that is normally in motion through a stable lens, maybe even an indifferent or exclusionary one. Thought of Peter Saul's Yellow Car (1957) as a successful example of this line of thinking. Dovetailed nicely with all of the documenting I've been doing of cars—they're central characters right now. But that angle failed today, twice, to become a fertile bed for anything interesting. Might have to do with a misguided intention, a way of seeing that is trying too hard to prove itself as implicit.

There are chapters in Scripture that feel like warm light through a window, and then there are chapters that feel like a mirror you didn’t ask to stand in front of. Second Peter chapter two is not gentle. It is not poetic in the way the Psalms are poetic, and it does not move softly like the Gospel narratives. It speaks with force. It interrupts comfort. It presses against our assumptions. And because of that, it is one of the most necessary chapters for believers living in an age saturated with voices, platforms, charisma, and spiritual language that sounds right while quietly leading hearts astray.

This chapter is often avoided, softened, or summarized too quickly because it makes us uneasy. It names deception. It warns of false teachers not as abstract ideas, but as real people who operate inside religious spaces. It refuses to separate belief from behavior. It challenges the idea that sincerity alone is enough. And it dismantles the modern notion that spiritual authority should never be questioned. Second Peter chapter two does not whisper its warning. It raises its voice because the stakes are eternal.

What makes this chapter especially uncomfortable is not simply that it speaks about false teachers, but that it exposes how easily deception can wear the clothing of faith. The danger Peter identifies is not persecution from the outside. It is corruption from within. It is not pagan hostility. It is spiritual distortion cloaked in familiarity, Bible language, and religious confidence. Peter is not warning believers about atheists or skeptics. He is warning them about people who claim to speak for God.

That distinction matters deeply. False teachers do not announce themselves as false. They come with credentials. They quote Scripture. They appeal to spiritual freedom. They speak about grace, knowledge, and insight. They promise liberation, enlightenment, and fulfillment. But Peter reveals the fruit beneath the language. These teachers are driven by greed. They exploit others. They manipulate truth for personal gain. They turn grace into permission for indulgence. They use spiritual authority to satisfy personal desires.

Peter’s concern is not theoretical. He grounds his warning in history. He reminds his readers that God has already demonstrated how He responds to rebellion and deception. Angels who sinned were not spared. The ancient world was not spared. Sodom and Gomorrah were not spared. These are not random examples. They form a pattern. God is patient, but He is not indifferent. Mercy does not cancel justice. Grace does not erase accountability. And delayed judgment is not the same as absent judgment.

At the same time, Peter weaves hope into his warning. Even as he speaks about judgment, he reminds readers that God knows how to rescue the godly from trials. Noah was preserved. Lot was rescued, even though his soul was distressed by the lawless conduct around him. The presence of evil does not mean God has lost control. The existence of false teachers does not mean truth has been defeated. God is both discerning and deliberate. He separates the faithful from the faithless, even when they appear to coexist for a time.

One of the most striking aspects of this chapter is how clearly it connects belief to behavior. Peter does not allow a separation between doctrine and conduct. False teachers are not merely wrong in what they teach; they are corrupt in how they live. Their lives reveal their theology. Their appetites expose their beliefs. Their treatment of others reveals their understanding of God. This challenges the modern tendency to excuse character flaws in spiritual leaders as long as their words sound right.

Peter describes these individuals as bold and arrogant, unafraid to slander celestial beings, driven by instinct rather than reason, and enslaved by corruption. This is not accidental language. He is showing that when someone rejects God’s authority, they eventually lose reverence for all authority. Pride becomes normal. Restraint disappears. Humility is replaced by entitlement. Spiritual leadership becomes performance, and influence becomes leverage.

The imagery Peter uses is intentionally unsettling. He compares false teachers to springs without water and mists driven by storms. They promise refreshment but deliver emptiness. They attract attention but offer no substance. They appeal to those who are barely escaping error, drawing vulnerable people back into bondage while claiming to offer freedom. This is one of the most tragic ironies in the chapter. Those who promise freedom are themselves enslaved.

This strikes directly at a popular misunderstanding of Christian liberty. Freedom in Christ is not the absence of boundaries. It is liberation from sin’s control, not permission to indulge it. Peter exposes teachers who redefine freedom as self-expression, self-indulgence, or self-authority. They reject moral restraint under the banner of grace, but in doing so they demonstrate that they never understood grace at all.

The chapter becomes even more sobering when Peter addresses those who once knew the truth but turned away from it. He describes their condition as worse than before they believed. This is not because God delights in punishment, but because knowledge increases responsibility. To encounter truth and then deliberately reject it hardens the heart in a way ignorance never could. This is why Peter uses such stark language. He wants readers to feel the seriousness of drifting away from what they once confessed.

The famous and disturbing imagery of a dog returning to its vomit and a washed pig returning to the mud is meant to shock. It is not meant to insult, but to awaken. It illustrates regression, not transformation. It shows the tragedy of tasting freedom and choosing bondage. It reminds us that external change without internal renewal is temporary at best. Religious behavior without spiritual rebirth eventually collapses under pressure.

Second Peter chapter two forces modern believers to wrestle with uncomfortable questions. How do we discern truth in an age where anyone can claim spiritual authority? How do we evaluate teaching when charisma and confidence are so persuasive? How do we protect ourselves from deception without becoming cynical or suspicious of everyone? Peter does not provide a checklist, but he gives us principles rooted in character, fruit, and faithfulness to Christ.

One of those principles is this: true teachers point away from themselves. False teachers draw attention to themselves. True teachers emphasize submission to Christ. False teachers emphasize personal autonomy. True teachers live lives marked by humility and integrity. False teachers live double lives that eventually reveal their priorities. True teachers handle Scripture with reverence. False teachers manipulate it for advantage.

Another principle is patience. Peter acknowledges that false teachers often appear to prosper. They attract followers. They gain influence. They seem successful. But Scripture consistently warns against confusing temporary success with divine approval. God’s timeline is longer than ours. Judgment delayed is not judgment denied. The chapter calls believers to trust God’s justice even when deception seems to flourish.

This chapter also invites personal reflection, not just external critique. It is easy to read about false teachers and think only of others. But Peter’s words also ask us to examine ourselves. Are there areas where we prefer comfort over truth? Are there teachings we embrace because they affirm our desires rather than challenge our hearts? Are we tempted to reshape God’s word to fit our lives rather than reshaping our lives to fit His word?

Second Peter chapter two is not written to create fear. It is written to cultivate discernment. It is not meant to drive believers away from community, but to deepen their commitment to truth. It does not encourage suspicion; it encourages wisdom. It does not glorify judgment; it magnifies God’s holiness and faithfulness.

In a time when spiritual language is everywhere, this chapter reminds us that not every voice that mentions God speaks for Him. Not every message that references grace understands it. Not every leader who claims authority has been entrusted with it. And not every path that feels liberating leads to life.

There is something deeply loving about Peter’s bluntness. He does not soften the message because the danger is real. He does not hesitate because people’s souls are at stake. He does not worry about sounding harsh because eternity is too important to protect feelings at the expense of truth. His warning is an act of care.

As we continue to sit with this chapter, it becomes clear that its relevance has only grown with time. The platforms are bigger. The audiences are wider. The incentives are stronger. The lines between truth and distortion can feel increasingly blurred. And yet, the call remains the same. Hold fast to Christ. Test every teaching. Watch the fruit. Guard your heart. Stay anchored in truth.

Second Peter chapter two does not allow comfortable faith. It calls for courageous faith. Faith that discerns. Faith that resists manipulation. Faith that refuses to trade holiness for popularity. Faith that trusts God’s justice even when deception appears to thrive. Faith that remembers that the narrow way has always been narrow, and that truth has never needed to disguise itself to endure.

This chapter stands like a warning sign on a dangerous road, not to frighten travelers away from the journey, but to keep them from stepping off the path. It reminds us that God takes truth seriously because He takes people seriously. He cares too much to remain silent while deception destroys.

Now, we will press even deeper into what this chapter means for modern believers, how it reshapes our understanding of accountability, and why discernment is not optional but essential for anyone who claims to follow Christ.

There is a reason Second Peter chapter two does not end with resolution or relief. It leaves the reader unsettled on purpose. Peter is not trying to close a loop emotionally. He is trying to leave a weight behind, something that lingers long enough to change how we listen, how we follow, and how we trust. This chapter is not meant to be consumed and forgotten. It is meant to recalibrate the believer’s instincts.

One of the most difficult realities this chapter confronts is the idea that proximity to truth does not guarantee transformation. Peter makes it clear that these false teachers are not outsiders stumbling in the dark. Many of them have known the way of righteousness. They have heard truth. They have spoken truth. They have been close enough to the light to describe it accurately, and yet they chose something else. That reality dismantles the comforting assumption that exposure to Christian language or community automatically produces spiritual depth.

This is where modern believers often struggle. We live in a culture that equates familiarity with faithfulness. We assume that because someone can speak fluently about Scripture, they must be spiritually mature. We confuse visibility with credibility. Peter refuses to make that mistake. He forces us to look beyond words and examine allegiance. Who is truly being served? Christ, or self? God’s truth, or personal appetite?

Second Peter chapter two also dismantles the illusion that time spent in religious spaces inoculates someone against deception. In fact, Peter suggests the opposite can be true. The more someone learns how to speak the language of faith without submitting to its authority, the more dangerous they become. Knowledge without obedience does not lead to wisdom. It leads to arrogance. Truth held without reverence becomes a tool rather than a transformation.

This chapter also reframes how we understand accountability. Modern culture often resists the idea that spiritual leaders should be scrutinized. Questioning authority is framed as unloving or divisive. Peter does not share that hesitation. He names deception directly. He does not shield false teachers under the guise of unity. For him, protecting the flock is more important than preserving reputations.

At the same time, Peter does not call believers to become self-appointed judges. He does not instruct them to hunt down false teachers or obsess over exposing every error. Instead, he emphasizes discernment rooted in truth. The focus is not on accusation but alignment. Stay close to Christ. Stay grounded in Scripture. Let truth sharpen your spiritual senses so that distortion becomes recognizable.

One of the most sobering elements of this chapter is how clearly it reveals the cost of spiritual compromise. False teachers do not merely harm themselves. They drag others with them. Peter describes them as enticing unstable souls, exploiting vulnerability, and leading people back into bondage. This reminds us that teaching is never neutral. Words shape direction. Influence carries responsibility. Every message has consequences.

This is why Peter’s language is so strong. He is not reacting emotionally. He is responding pastorally. He understands that deception does not announce itself loudly. It whispers. It flatters. It reassures. It often tells people exactly what they want to hear. And that is why it is so dangerous. It bypasses resistance by appealing to desire.

Second Peter chapter two also forces us to reconsider how we define spiritual success. These false teachers are not described as marginalized or ignored. They have followers. They are persuasive. They appear confident. In many ways, they look successful by human standards. Peter reminds us that popularity is not proof of truth. Influence is not evidence of faithfulness. Numbers do not equal approval.

This confronts a deeply ingrained assumption in modern Christianity, where growth is often measured by visibility and reach. Peter redirects attention to endurance, integrity, and submission to Christ. True faithfulness is not loud. It is steady. It does not need constant validation. It is content to be unseen if it remains obedient.

Another uncomfortable truth in this chapter is that false teachers often emerge from within the community, not outside it. They are not strangers. They are familiar voices. This makes discernment emotionally difficult because it requires honesty without hostility and clarity without cruelty. Peter does not deny that this is painful. He simply insists that truth matters more than comfort.

This chapter also offers a necessary corrective to the idea that God’s patience implies indifference. Peter acknowledges that judgment does not always come quickly. False teachers may seem to thrive for a season. But God’s delay is not weakness. It is mercy mixed with certainty. Judgment, when it comes, is thorough and just.

That truth offers both warning and reassurance. It warns those who manipulate faith for gain that nothing escapes God’s notice. And it reassures believers that injustice will not have the final word. God sees what is hidden. He knows what is corrupt. He is not fooled by appearances.

Second Peter chapter two ultimately calls believers to maturity. Not a shallow maturity that avoids conflict, but a deep maturity that can hold tension. The tension between grace and truth. Between patience and accountability. Between love and discernment. It reminds us that following Christ requires more than enthusiasm. It requires vigilance.

This chapter also invites us to examine our own hearts honestly. Not to live in fear, but to live in humility. Are we open to correction? Do we submit our preferences to Scripture, or do we search for teachings that affirm what we already want? Are we growing in holiness, or merely accumulating spiritual language?

Peter’s warning is not meant to produce paranoia. It is meant to cultivate clarity. The answer to deception is not isolation. It is depth. The solution is not suspicion. It is truth rooted deeply enough that counterfeit versions are easily recognized.

As we move forward as believers, this chapter urges us to anchor our faith not in personalities, platforms, or trends, but in Christ Himself. He is the standard. He is the authority. He is the truth that does not shift with culture or convenience.

Second Peter chapter two stands as a guardrail along the narrow path. It reminds us that the way of life has always required discernment. It warns us not to confuse freedom with self-rule, or grace with indulgence. And it calls us back, again and again, to the humility and obedience that mark genuine faith.

This is not an easy chapter. But it is a faithful one. It refuses to flatter. It refuses to entertain illusion. And because of that, it protects what matters most. Truth. Souls. And the integrity of the Gospel itself.

When Scripture speaks this clearly, it is not because God is harsh. It is because He cares too much to let deception destroy quietly. Second Peter chapter two is not a threat. It is a gift. A wake-up call. A reminder that following Jesus has always required discernment, courage, and a love for truth that outweighs our desire for comfort.

And in a world overflowing with voices, that reminder could not be more necessary.

Your friend, Douglas Vandergraph

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There are two problems I have with AI: the massive energy requirements to run the servers and the increased prices of computer parts to meet demand. Amazon, Google, and Microsoft are making deals with energy companies to build nuclear power plants next to their data centers. How is this fair when ordinary people experience blackouts due in part to AI’s energy consumption? And what about PC building enthusiasts who want to make their own computers, or people who just want to buy an ordinary computer/laptop? They’ll have to pay even more out of their pockets just for the privilege of having one.

Whether you like or hate AI is irrelevant. At the end of the day, it’s here to stay. Can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. The best thing to do is to have people develop their own LLMs or download the LLM of their choice to their computers. The drive for independent AI and taking power away from corporations and governments should be the goal for everyone, including writers.

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January, 2026

Midnight sounds like a war zone in the future. Fire is hard to hold. I wonder if the barrier is our feelings, or my action that Tuesday morning. I wonder if there’s a difference.

I tell myself I ask for nothing. I tell you to bask in the loyal gravity of your family, to let their love keep you through the night. I mean it. I really do. And still—I hope for small drips. I hope and then pretend I don’t.

Music makes its case. Some of it reaches upward, frantic and bright. Some of it stays low, sensual, deliberate—like breath slowed to match another body’s sleep. I don’t know if I’m projecting or if the names were always true. Maybe it doesn’t matter. Everything sounds like you lately.

I start new months just to keep us contained. New notebooks. New pages pierced. Proof of motion. Proof I’m still here.

I want to stay up and watch the year change with you, to kiss you in the anti-celebration, but my light fades. I nap. I dream. I wake. I keep missing you forward in time.

Sometimes you say you’re writing from oblivion. Sometimes from home. Sometimes from a hot tub you didn’t need. Wherever you are, I’m rain with nowhere to fall.

The days fill anyway: parks, museums, long meals spoken through borrowed language and glowing screens. I work to be understood. I am exhausted and electrified by it. I kiss a host because he tells me it’s the custom and resists like it’s a sport. We laugh. We live. We go on.

At night the fire starts. Wind permitting. Wood stacked. Stars overhead. Passion chosen for the day—urgent, incandescent, already tragic. Love written like destiny with a clock ticking somewhere offstage.

I walk alone to balconies that pretend they remember Juliet. I listen. I imagine. I let the music decide what to do with me.

Sometimes I wonder if you are real.

Sometimes loving you feels like standing at the edge of a lake at night, watching reflections burn.

Love as starlight. Love as fate. Love arriving too late and still arriving all the same.

What I have always found striking about 2 Peter 1 is how unglamorous it is. That might sound strange, because we often associate spiritual growth with dramatic moments—conversion stories, breakthroughs, sudden clarity, radical change. But Peter opens this letter by dismantling the myth that faith matures through one decisive leap. Instead, he frames the Christian life as a slow, intentional climb. Step by step. Layer by layer. Virtue added to faith. Knowledge added to virtue. Self-control added to knowledge. Perseverance added to self-control. Godliness added to perseverance. Mutual affection added to godliness. Love added to everything. This chapter is not about fireworks. It is about formation.

Peter is writing as a man who has lived long enough to know that zeal fades, emotions fluctuate, and enthusiasm alone cannot sustain a life of faith. He has seen leaders fall. He has seen churches fracture. He has seen believers start strong and drift quietly away. By the time he writes 2 Peter, he is not interested in shallow encouragement or inspirational slogans. He is interested in stability. Endurance. Permanence. He wants believers to know how to stand firm when novelty wears off and pressure increases. And so he begins where everything must begin: with identity.

He opens by reminding his readers that they have received a faith as precious as his own. Not a lesser faith. Not a beginner version. Not something diluted by time or distance. The same faith that sustained the apostles now belongs to ordinary believers scattered across the Roman world. This is important, because spiritual growth does not begin with striving. It begins with receiving. Peter does not say, “Work hard so that one day you may have faith like ours.” He says, “You already have it.” The foundation is already laid. The question is not whether God has given enough. The question is whether we will live out what has already been given.

This is where Peter introduces one of the most powerful ideas in the entire chapter: everything needed for life and godliness has already been provided. That sentence alone dismantles so much anxiety in modern Christianity. We often live as though God gave us salvation but left us to figure out transformation on our own. We pray as if we are missing essential ingredients. We search for new techniques, new teachers, new experiences, convinced that growth requires something God forgot to include. Peter says otherwise. He says the supply problem is not on God’s end. The issue is not provision. The issue is participation.

God has granted believers access to His divine power, and not in an abstract or mystical sense. Peter ties this power directly to knowing God and responding to His promises. Growth is relational before it is behavioral. It flows out of knowing who God is and trusting what He has said. This is a crucial corrective, because many believers exhaust themselves trying to become godly without deepening their knowledge of God. They focus on outcomes instead of intimacy. Peter reverses the order. He anchors transformation in relationship.

From that foundation, Peter introduces the famous list that has sparked sermons, studies, and debates for centuries. Faith, virtue, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, mutual affection, and love. What is often missed is that Peter is not presenting a checklist or a hierarchy of spiritual achievements. He is describing a process. Each quality grows out of the previous one. Faith is not meant to remain abstract. It must express itself in virtue. Virtue without understanding becomes rigid, so knowledge must be added. Knowledge without discipline becomes arrogance, so self-control is necessary. Self-control without endurance collapses under pressure, so perseverance is required. Perseverance without reverence becomes stubbornness, so godliness is formed. Godliness that does not love others becomes hollow, so mutual affection grows. And mutual affection matures into love that reflects the heart of Christ.

This is not a sprint. It is a lifelong cultivation. Peter uses language that implies intentional effort, but not anxious striving. He tells believers to “make every effort,” yet he has already assured them that God has supplied everything necessary. Effort here is not about earning favor. It is about aligning with grace. It is cooperation, not compensation. The Christian life is not passive, but neither is it self-powered. It is a partnership in which God provides the power and we respond with obedience.

One of the most sobering warnings in this chapter comes when Peter describes what happens when these qualities are absent. He says the person who lacks them is nearsighted and blind, forgetting that they have been cleansed from their past sins. That is a striking image. Forgetfulness here is not about memory. It is about identity. To forget that you have been cleansed is to live as though your past still defines you. It is to allow shame, fear, or complacency to eclipse the truth of redemption. Spiritual stagnation is not merely a lack of growth; it is often a loss of perspective.

Peter’s concern is not that believers might lose their salvation. His concern is that they might lose their effectiveness. He ties growth directly to fruitfulness. These qualities, when present and increasing, keep believers from being ineffective and unproductive in their knowledge of Jesus Christ. Notice the emphasis again: knowledge is not the goal. Fruit is. Knowing Jesus is meant to produce a visible, transformative impact on how we live, how we endure hardship, how we treat others, and how we love.

Then Peter makes a statement that has sometimes been misunderstood or mishandled: he urges believers to confirm their calling and election. This is not a call to anxiety or constant self-examination. It is a call to assurance through growth. Peter is saying that a life shaped by these qualities provides confidence, not confusion. When faith is active and maturing, it steadies the soul. It anchors hope. It reassures the believer that their life is aligned with God’s work within them.

The promise attached to this exhortation is remarkable. Peter says that those who practice these things will never stumble and will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom. Again, this is not about perfection. It is about direction. A life oriented toward growth, humility, and love is a life that endures. Peter is writing to believers who will face persecution, false teaching, and cultural pressure. He knows that stability will not come from charisma or intellectual brilliance. It will come from character.

What stands out to me personally is Peter’s pastoral tone. He does not assume that his readers will remember these truths automatically. He commits himself to reminding them, even though they already know them and are established in the truth. This reveals something profound about spiritual maturity: it does not outgrow the need for reminders. In fact, the more mature a believer becomes, the more they recognize how easily they drift without reinforcement. Peter understands that truth must be rehearsed to remain alive.

He even frames his writing as a legacy. He knows his time is short. He speaks openly about putting off his earthly tent. Yet his concern is not his own comfort or reputation. His concern is continuity. He wants believers to recall these truths after he is gone. This is not the mindset of someone chasing influence. This is the mindset of a shepherd who wants the flock to survive without him.

There is something deeply countercultural about this chapter, especially in an age obsessed with speed, visibility, and instant results. 2 Peter 1 does not promise rapid transformation. It promises lasting formation. It does not elevate talent or spectacle. It elevates faithfulness. It does not suggest that spiritual growth is automatic. It insists that it is intentional, relational, and sustained over time.

As I reflect on this chapter, I am reminded that the most dangerous season in the Christian life is not crisis, but complacency. Crisis drives us to dependence. Complacency dulls our awareness. Peter writes to believers who are not in open rebellion, but in danger of drifting. His answer is not fear, but focus. Remember who you are. Remember what God has given. Add to your faith. Grow deliberately. Love deeply. Endure patiently.

2 Peter 1 is not a call to become someone else. It is a call to fully become who you already are in Christ. It is an invitation to align daily life with eternal identity. And it is a reminder that the quiet climb of character, sustained over time, is far more powerful than any momentary spiritual high.

Now, I want to explore how Peter’s emphasis on eyewitness testimony, remembrance, and the reliability of God’s word deepens this call to stability, and why 2 Peter 1 ultimately prepares believers not just to grow, but to stand firm when truth itself is challenged.

What gives 2 Peter 1 its lasting weight is not only what Peter says about growth, but why he says it. After laying out the slow, deliberate process of spiritual formation, he turns his attention to something even more foundational: how believers can trust what they have been taught when competing voices grow louder and truth itself becomes contested. Peter knows that growth without grounding is fragile. Character without conviction collapses when pressure comes. And so he anchors the believer’s life not merely in effort or discipline, but in truth that is historically rooted, personally witnessed, and divinely confirmed.

Peter transitions by explaining why he is so committed to reminding his readers of these things. He does not apologize for repetition. He embraces it. He understands something modern culture resists: repetition is not stagnation; it is reinforcement. Truth that is not revisited is easily replaced. Peter is not introducing new ideas because novelty is not what sustains faith. Continuity does. He is reinforcing what already holds weight, because enduring faith is built on remembered truth, not constant innovation.

He speaks openly about his mortality, describing his body as a temporary tent that he will soon put aside. This is not morbid language. It is sober clarity. Peter is aware that his authority will soon be gone, and with it, the comfort of having eyewitness apostles still present in the church. This awareness shapes the urgency of his words. He is not writing casually. He is preserving something. He wants believers to be able to recall these truths independently, without relying on charismatic leaders or living witnesses.

This concern becomes even clearer when Peter addresses the nature of his testimony. He draws a sharp distinction between cleverly devised stories and firsthand experience. Christianity, in Peter’s framing, is not mythology crafted to inspire moral behavior. It is grounded in events that were seen, heard, and experienced. Peter specifically references the transfiguration, where he witnessed Jesus revealed in glory and heard the voice of God affirm Him. This moment was not symbolic to Peter. It was formative. It confirmed that Jesus was not merely a teacher, but the Son of God, invested with divine authority.

What is striking here is that Peter does not use this experience to elevate himself. He does not say, “Trust me because I had an extraordinary encounter.” Instead, he uses it to point beyond himself. His experience validates the message, but it does not replace the word. In fact, Peter goes so far as to say that believers have something even more reliable than eyewitness testimony: the prophetic word made sure. This statement is profound. An apostle who walked with Jesus, saw His glory, and heard God’s voice still insists that Scripture holds supreme authority.

This matters deeply for believers navigating uncertainty. Experiences fade. Emotions fluctuate. Memories can be questioned. But the word of God remains. Peter describes Scripture as a lamp shining in a dark place, guiding believers until the day dawns and Christ is fully revealed. This imagery captures the function of Scripture perfectly. It does not eliminate darkness instantly. It provides direction within it. It allows believers to walk faithfully even when clarity feels partial.

Peter’s emphasis on Scripture also addresses a growing danger within the early church: distorted teaching. He knows that once the apostles are gone, false teachers will arise, offering alternative interpretations and self-serving messages. By grounding believers in the reliability and divine origin of Scripture, Peter equips them to discern truth from distortion. He is not creating dependence on leaders. He is fostering discernment rooted in God’s word.

He closes the chapter by clarifying the nature of prophecy itself. Scripture did not originate in human will or imagination. It was spoken from God as men were carried along by the Holy Spirit. This does not erase human personality or context, but it does affirm divine authorship. Peter is careful here. He does not present Scripture as a human attempt to reach God, but as God’s initiative to reveal Himself. This distinction matters, because it shifts authority away from interpretation driven by preference and anchors it in revelation shaped by God’s intent.

Taken together, the second half of 2 Peter 1 reinforces everything Peter has already said about growth. Spiritual formation requires a stable foundation. Character must be shaped by truth. Effort must be guided by revelation. Without these anchors, growth becomes self-directed and vulnerable to drift. Peter’s solution is not fear-based control or rigid systems. It is remembrance, reliability, and rootedness.

What resonates most with me is how deeply pastoral this chapter is. Peter is not trying to impress his readers. He is trying to protect them. He knows that faith will be tested not only by suffering, but by confusion. He knows that endurance requires more than good intentions. It requires clarity about who Jesus is, what God has done, and where authority truly lies.

In many ways, 2 Peter 1 feels especially relevant now. We live in an age flooded with opinions, spiritual commentary, and competing narratives. Truth is often treated as negotiable, shaped by preference rather than revelation. In that environment, Peter’s words land with renewed urgency. Grow intentionally. Remember constantly. Anchor deeply. Do not build your faith on trends, personalities, or emotional highs. Build it on the unchanging reality of who Christ is and what God has spoken.

This chapter also reframes what success looks like in the Christian life. It is not measured by visibility or influence. It is measured by faithfulness over time. The quiet accumulation of virtue. The steady practice of love. The endurance that does not collapse when enthusiasm fades. Peter does not promise ease. He promises stability. And in a world that constantly shifts, stability is a gift.

As I sit with this chapter, I am reminded that growth is rarely dramatic. It is usually unseen. It happens in daily choices, repeated obedience, and patient trust. It happens when we return to Scripture not because it is novel, but because it is true. It happens when we allow reminders to shape us rather than resenting repetition. And it happens when we remember that everything needed for life and godliness has already been given.

2 Peter 1 does not ask believers to chase something elusive. It invites them to live fully into what they already possess. A precious faith. Divine provision. Reliable truth. A sure hope. And a calling not to rush, but to remain faithful until the day Christ is revealed.

This is not a chapter about becoming impressive. It is a chapter about becoming steady. And in the long arc of a life of faith, steadiness may be the greatest testimony of all.

Your friend, Douglas Vandergraph

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For a very long time, many people have assumed that fear is the proper posture of faith. They have been told, directly or indirectly, that a healthy relationship with God must include anxiety, dread, or a constant awareness of divine punishment. This idea has been repeated so often that it feels unquestionable, like something built into the fabric of Christianity itself. But when you slow down and examine where this belief comes from, and more importantly when you place it next to the actual message of the New Testament, it becomes clear that fear-based faith is not only unnecessary, it is fundamentally incompatible with the gospel of Jesus Christ.

The notion that believers are supposed to be afraid of God survives largely because it is old. It feels serious. It feels weighty. It feels like something “real Christians” should believe. And because it has been passed down through generations, it carries the authority of tradition. Grandparents believed it. Their parents believed it. Sermons reinforced it. Culture echoed it. But tradition alone does not determine truth. Many things are old and still wrong. Many ideas are inherited without ever being examined. Fear-based faith is one of them.

At its core, fear-based religion is built on distance. It assumes God is far away, easily angered, perpetually disappointed, and constantly monitoring human behavior for failure. In this framework, obedience is driven by avoidance. People behave not because they love God, but because they are afraid of consequences. They follow rules not because their hearts are transformed, but because they fear punishment. This approach may produce external compliance, but it never produces intimacy, and it certainly never produces joy.

One of the greatest misunderstandings in Christian history is the failure to recognize how radically the New Testament redefines humanity’s relationship with God. The Old Testament tells the story of a people gradually coming to understand who God is. The New Testament tells the story of God stepping into the world to show us directly. These are not the same thing. The Old Testament is preparatory. The New Testament is revelatory. When people collapse the two into a single emotional framework without acknowledging the shift that occurs through Christ, fear becomes the default interpretation.

In ancient times, fear was often associated with survival. Gods were unpredictable. Deities were dangerous. Power was terrifying. To encounter holiness was to encounter threat. In that context, fear felt reasonable. But Jesus does not reinforce this worldview. He dismantles it. He does not come to increase distance between humanity and God; He comes to eliminate it entirely. He does not come to make people more afraid; He comes to make God known.

The gospel is not an upgrade to fear. It is a replacement of it.

One of the most telling indicators of this shift is how Jesus consistently addresses God. He does not present God as a looming authority figure to be avoided. He presents God as a Father to be approached. This is not a minor linguistic change. It is a complete relational redefinition. Calling God “Father” changes the emotional posture of faith. A father may command respect, but he is not meant to inspire terror. A father disciplines, but not for the sake of punishment. A father corrects in order to restore relationship, not to destroy it.

Jesus does not instruct His followers to fear God’s wrath. He invites them to trust God’s character. He does not motivate obedience through threat. He motivates transformation through love. When people encountered Jesus, they were not repelled by fear. They were drawn by compassion. They followed Him because they felt seen, known, and valued. This is not accidental. This is the point.

Fear-based religion thrives on control. Relational faith thrives on trust. Control requires fear to function. Trust requires love. The New Testament consistently moves people away from fear and toward trust because trust is the soil where transformation actually grows.

The problem with fear-based faith is not just theological, it is psychological. Fear activates self-protection. When people are afraid, they hide. They perform. They conceal their weaknesses. They suppress their doubts. They pretend to be better than they are because vulnerability feels dangerous. This is why fear-based religious environments are often full of secrecy, shame, and burnout. People are trying to survive spiritually instead of grow.

The New Testament addresses this directly by removing the foundation of fear altogether. It does not deny God’s holiness. It reframes it. Holiness is no longer something that pushes people away; it becomes something that draws people in through grace. The cross is the turning point. It is the moment where punishment is absorbed, not postponed. Justice is satisfied, not deferred. Reconciliation is achieved, not conditioned.

This is why fear no longer makes sense after the cross. If punishment has already been dealt with, what exactly is fear responding to? If condemnation has been removed, what is left to be afraid of? The gospel does not say, “Behave so God will love you.” It says, “You are loved, therefore be transformed.” That distinction changes everything.

One of the most direct statements in Scripture on this subject comes from the apostle John, who does not soften the message or leave room for ambiguity. He states plainly that fear has to do with punishment, and that love casts fear out. This is not poetic exaggeration. It is a theological conclusion. Fear exists where punishment is expected. Love exists where punishment has been removed. You cannot sustain both at the same time.

When people insist that fear must still be central to faith, what they are really saying is that the cross was insufficient. They may not intend to say this, but the implication is unavoidable. If fear is still required, then something remains unresolved. If terror is still necessary, then grace has not fully done its work. The New Testament rejects this idea completely.

The apostle Paul reinforces this by describing believers not as slaves, but as adopted children. This distinction matters deeply. Slaves obey because they fear consequences. Children obey because they trust relationship. Slavery is driven by external pressure. Adoption is rooted in belonging. Paul is not using metaphor casually. He is describing a shift in identity. Fear belongs to slavery. Trust belongs to family.

This is where the old, inherited model of faith becomes not just outdated, but actively harmful. When people are taught to fear God, they are taught to relate to Him as a threat rather than a presence. They approach faith with caution instead of confidence. They pray with anxiety instead of honesty. They confess with dread instead of relief. Over time, this erodes spiritual health and replaces it with chronic guilt.

Jesus never modeled this kind of faith. When He spoke to sinners, He did not intimidate them. When He corrected His disciples, He did not shame them. When He confronted hypocrisy, He did so to expose false religion, not to terrorize broken people. His harshest words were reserved for those who used fear to control others in the name of God.

This detail is often overlooked, but it is crucial. Jesus did not condemn people for being afraid. He confronted systems that created fear. He consistently dismantled religious structures that burdened people with anxiety while offering no path to healing. His invitation was always relational. “Come and see.” “Follow me.” “Remain in me.” These are not the words of a God who wants people afraid.

Fear-based theology also misunderstands obedience. Obedience driven by fear is fragile. It collapses under pressure. The moment fear diminishes, behavior changes. Obedience driven by love is resilient. It flows naturally from trust and gratitude. This is why the New Testament emphasizes transformation over regulation. The goal is not behavior modification. The goal is heart renewal.

It is important to say clearly that rejecting fear-based faith does not mean rejecting reverence, accountability, or moral seriousness. It means rejecting terror as a spiritual motivator. Reverence is about honor. Fear is about threat. Accountability is about growth. Fear is about punishment. These are not the same thing, and confusing them has done tremendous damage to people’s understanding of God.

When fear dominates faith, God becomes smaller, not greater. He becomes a reactive figure instead of a redemptive one. He becomes someone to manage rather than someone to know. This is not the God revealed in Christ. The God revealed in Christ moves toward people, not away from them. He enters human suffering instead of observing it from a distance. He absorbs pain instead of inflicting it.

The persistence of fear-based religion says more about human insecurity than divine intention. People cling to fear because it feels controllable. Love feels risky. Relationship requires vulnerability. Fear feels safe because it is familiar. But familiarity is not faithfulness. The gospel invites people into something deeper, even if it feels unfamiliar at first.

The early church understood this. That is why their message spread so rapidly. They were not preaching terror. They were preaching reconciliation. They were not threatening people with divine wrath. They were announcing good news. The word “gospel” itself means good news, not warning. Fear-based preaching cannot be good news by definition.

As the New Testament unfolds, it becomes increasingly clear that fear is not a spiritual virtue to be cultivated, but a condition to be healed. Jesus does not congratulate people for being afraid. He reassures them. He does not validate their fear. He speaks peace into it. Again and again, His response to human anxiety is presence, not pressure.

This is where the generational argument collapses. The fact that older generations believed fear was central to faith does not make it correct. It makes it inherited. Many of those beliefs were shaped by cultural conditions, limited theological understanding, and institutional religion. Jesus did not come to preserve those systems. He came to fulfill and transcend them.

Faith is not supposed to feel like walking on eggshells. It is not supposed to feel like constant self-monitoring. It is not supposed to feel like God is one mistake away from withdrawing love. That is not Christianity. That is anxiety dressed up as holiness.

The New Testament offers something far more demanding and far more freeing at the same time. It calls people into relationship. Relationship requires honesty. It requires trust. It requires courage. But it does not require fear.

God does not want terrified followers. He wants transformed ones. He does not want obedience rooted in panic. He wants devotion rooted in love. He does not want people hiding from Him. He wants people walking with Him.

This is not modern softness. This is ancient gospel truth rediscovered. Fear-based faith belongs to a stage of spiritual development that humanity has moved beyond in Christ. Love-based faith is not a downgrade. It is the fulfillment of everything the Old Testament was pointing toward.

And this is only the beginning of the conversation.

Now, this article will go even deeper into how fear-based religion distorts Scripture, damages spiritual formation, misunderstands judgment, and prevents authentic relationship with Christ, while showing why love, not fear, is the only foundation strong enough to sustain real faith.

One of the reasons fear-based faith survives is because it often disguises itself as seriousness. It sounds committed. It sounds disciplined. It sounds like it takes God “seriously.” But seriousness is not the same thing as truth, and intensity is not the same thing as intimacy. Many people confuse emotional heaviness with spiritual depth, assuming that if faith feels weighty and frightening, it must be authentic. Yet the New Testament consistently moves in the opposite direction. It replaces heaviness with freedom, fear with confidence, and distance with closeness.

When fear becomes central to faith, it subtly reshapes how people read Scripture. Passages are filtered through anxiety instead of grace. God’s corrective actions are interpreted as threats. God’s authority is interpreted as hostility. God’s holiness is interpreted as danger. This is not because Scripture teaches these things, but because fear demands that interpretation to survive. Fear always looks for evidence to justify itself.

This is especially evident in how people talk about judgment. Judgment, in fear-based theology, is portrayed as a looming catastrophe for believers, as though the cross only partially resolved humanity’s standing with God. But the New Testament does not present judgment as something believers live in dread of. It presents judgment as something that has already been addressed in Christ. This does not eliminate accountability, but it fundamentally changes its nature. Accountability in the New Testament is restorative, not punitive. It is about alignment, not condemnation.

When Paul writes that there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ, he is not offering emotional reassurance. He is making a definitive theological claim. Condemnation has been removed as a category for those who belong to Christ. Fear-based religion quietly reintroduces condemnation through the back door, insisting that believers must still live under threat to remain faithful. But this directly contradicts the gospel’s central claim that Christ has reconciled humanity to God fully, not partially.

Fear also distorts the concept of repentance. In fear-based frameworks, repentance is driven by panic. People repent because they are afraid of consequences. This produces surface-level change at best. In the New Testament, repentance is driven by revelation. People repent because they see truth more clearly. They turn not because they are terrified, but because they are transformed. Repentance becomes a response to love, not an escape from punishment.

This distinction matters because fear-based repentance produces cycles of shame. People repent, fail again, feel condemned, repent again, and remain trapped in anxiety. Love-based repentance produces growth. People repent, receive grace, grow in understanding, and gradually change. One produces exhaustion. The other produces maturity.

Another place fear-based faith collapses is in how it understands obedience. Obedience rooted in fear is always transactional. It asks, “What do I have to do to avoid consequences?” Obedience rooted in relationship asks, “How do I live in alignment with who God is and who I am becoming?” These questions produce entirely different lives. One creates rigid rule-followers. The other creates transformed people.

Jesus never frames obedience as a way to avoid God’s anger. He frames it as a natural expression of love. “If you love me, you will keep my commands” is not a threat. It is an observation. Love produces alignment. Fear produces resistance. This is why fear-based religion is so fragile. It requires constant reinforcement to maintain compliance. The moment fear weakens, the system collapses.

Relationship-based faith does not require constant threat because it is sustained by trust. Trust grows over time. It deepens through experience. It matures through honesty. Fear prevents all of these things. You cannot be honest with someone you are afraid of. You cannot trust someone you believe is waiting to punish you. You cannot grow in intimacy with someone you feel the need to hide from.

This is why fear-based faith inevitably produces performative spirituality. People learn what to say, how to act, and which behaviors are acceptable, but they never bring their whole selves into the relationship. Doubts are suppressed. Struggles are hidden. Questions are silenced. Over time, this creates a spiritual culture where appearance matters more than authenticity. Jesus confronts this directly and repeatedly, calling it hypocrisy, not holiness.

The irony is that fear-based religion claims to honor God, but it actually diminishes Him. It portrays God as emotionally volatile, easily angered, and perpetually dissatisfied. This is not reverence. This is projection. It assigns human insecurity to divine character. The God revealed in Christ is not fragile, reactive, or insecure. He is patient, steadfast, and faithful. Fear-based faith cannot coexist with that image, so it reshapes God into something more threatening.

The New Testament insists on a different vision. God is not managing His anger. He is expressing His love. God is not barely tolerating humanity. He is actively reconciling it. God is not waiting for failure. He is walking with people through transformation. This does not lower moral standards. It raises relational depth.

When fear is removed, faith becomes more demanding, not less. Love requires more than fear ever could. Fear asks for compliance. Love asks for surrender. Fear asks for obedience under pressure. Love asks for trust without guarantees. Fear keeps people in line. Love changes who they are.

This is why the gospel is not soft. It is radical. It does not threaten people into morality. It invites them into transformation. It does not coerce behavior. It reshapes identity. People who are loved well do not need to be frightened into goodness. They grow into it naturally.

The claim that fear is necessary to keep people faithful reveals a lack of confidence in the gospel itself. If love is insufficient to transform people, then Christianity has no real power. But the New Testament boldly claims the opposite. Love is not only sufficient. It is the only thing that works.

This understanding also reframes suffering. Fear-based faith interprets hardship as punishment or warning. Relational faith understands hardship as part of a broken world through which God remains present. Instead of asking, “What did I do wrong?” people begin asking, “How is God with me in this?” This shift alone transforms spiritual resilience.

Jesus does not promise the absence of difficulty. He promises presence. Fear-based religion promises safety in exchange for obedience. The gospel promises companionship in the midst of reality. One is fragile and collapses when life gets hard. The other endures because it is rooted in relationship.

At its deepest level, fear-based faith is not actually about God. It is about control. It uses fear to manage uncertainty, behavior, and identity. Relational faith relinquishes control and embraces trust. This is why it feels threatening to religious systems. Relationship cannot be regulated the way fear can.

The insistence that “this is how faith has always worked” is historically and theologically false. Faith has always been moving toward relationship. The entire biblical narrative points in that direction. Jesus is not a detour from fear-based religion. He is its fulfillment and replacement.

To continue teaching fear as central to faith is to stop the story short. It is to live as though the resurrection did not happen. It is to remain in the shadow when the light has already come. That is not reverence. That is resistance.

God is not asking people to be afraid of Him. He is asking them to know Him. And knowing God changes everything. Fear cannot survive in the presence of genuine love. It dissolves. It loses its power. It becomes unnecessary.

This does not make faith casual. It makes it honest. It does not make God small. It makes Him good. It does not weaken obedience. It deepens it. It does not produce shallow belief. It produces enduring transformation.

The old model of fear-based faith belongs to a time before the cross, before grace was fully understood, before relationship was fully revealed. We do not live in those times anymore. We live in the reality of resurrection. We live in the presence of love. We live in the invitation of relationship.

Fear may have shaped the past, but it does not define the future of faith.

Love does.

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I'm determined to not let this year just slip by like 2025 in terms of writing. Or in terms of creative endeavors. Easy to say. “Determined.” A week's gone by, so we'll see. To be honest, I'm tired, it's late. It would be fun to close the tab and just play a video game for my last waking hour of the day.

Once again, though, I am driven to write by thoughts that bubbled up in my personal journal entry for the day. Realizing that recently I've fallen into this habit. Feeling out of gas at the end of the day and not really wanting to write, saying I'll do it tomorrow. But tomorrow, there will be something else to do; there always is. For this blog, then, or any of my creative projects, tomorrow never comes.

A very cliche thing, for sure. But, okay. I'll do it now. Do it today. At least for one day. My thoughts keep swirling to the game yesterday. I watched it for a person who isn't here to watch it. I watched it even though I had no stake in it and at the outset honestly not even much of an interest in it. The game did get legitimately interesting, though, and by the end I was cheering out loud and hollering, yelling at the TV screen, clapping. Just generally making a fool of myself as I sat alone in the apartment. The neighbors must love me.

Afterwards, I wondered if that was some of you. In some way, you were watching with me, or perhaps I was even channeling your spirit somehow. I got caught up in it in a way that I really did not expect. And the ending, boy howdy the ending.

The feeling was truly bittersweet. At once I felt so elated that your team had won, after so many years. It happened, man. I felt happy for you. But it stung, stung deeply to realize that you weren't actually here to see it. If you'd only held on for a little longer, just a few more months, you could've seen this come to pass. My eyes teared up, although I did not cry.

But that's how it is for everyone though, in the end. You might've even responded to my thoughts, saying that nobody can stick around to see everything forever. Eventually, we miss out.

So I'm stuck with hoping that perhaps, beyond all logic, there is something beyond this. Some kind of existence, and maybe in some way, shape, or form, you saw what happened. That you knew they won and that you got to revel in the moment.

Later I had a discussion about this and other things with my sister. How we want to believe all of these thoughts about what is possible beyond this existence we know. It's a very 51/49 kind of thing, though, where our brains are just slightly more wired towards logic to really believe it.

I try to find the meaning in dreams even though I “know” there isn't really any.

Except that which we create. My sister had even less interest in this game than I, but everyone talking to her about it and what he would have thought about it at least got her to pull up the highlights online. Upon seeing the team logo, her kid said, “aww, look at that little cutie pie.” Neither my sister nor I understand how he could've possibly called that logo a little cutie pie.

Old man, you would've found the story funny. Maybe you do.

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It's no secret that I believe 'online worship' is a fictional construct. You can listen to a sermon. You can watch people sing. You can even watch people take the sacrament. But you're not engaging in corporate worship. You're not part of a community.

Speaking about engagement in politics, not religion, Mark Granza has reached the same conclusion, though much more astutely than I:

People are no longer present in physical space—they essentially transitioned online. Think of how many people believe they belong to a “community,” regularly hosting podcast discussions as if there are a thousand people in front of them, but really, they’re alone in their living room...If you’re alone in your living room, it doesn’t matter how many people you’re “connecting” to. Truth is, you’re alone.

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